9. Gossiping has become your second nature.
“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
This act of talking about others is detrimental for you because it takes so much time away from actually doing something productive and life-changing. Gossiping about others is not cool, to be honest. What someone is doing in their personal lives, and how they are choosing to live their lives is not something you should discuss behind their backs.
One of the most important things that will help you change your life is having integrity, and gossiping has no integrity. Realize that life needs to be faced with your head held high, and you are simply wasting your precious time by talking about what someone else is doing.
10. Vacations are the only thing that makes you feel happy.
If the only thing you look forward to all year is your vacation leave, then there is something very wrong with your life. Listen, vacations are a good thing and once in a while, everyone needs to take a break from their work and hectic lives and just let loose. But if that’s the only thing keeping you going, then you need to change things now.
Try to build a life you don’t need to escape from. Try to build a life that excites you the moment you wake up in the morning. Build a life that won’t revolve around a two-week vacation only.
Changing your life doesn’t happen overnight, it’s a gradual process. But you need to start from somewhere right? You need to take the first step and start this tough but beautiful journey.