12. Giving a fuck about what you don’t have
There will always be others with more and others with less. Make a list of all the things in your life that you appreciate.
Why would you give a shit to want all the things you don’t have? Wanting anyhow doesn’t make you happy!
What you have is enough.
13. Giving a fuck about Revenge.
Leave revenge up to fate.
Make peace with the issue.
Instead seek ways to put that negative energy into more positive, productive use.
14. Giving a fuck about “What Ifs”
Don’t drive yourself crazy worrying about what might happen in the future.
Face worry head-on – if you can do something in the present moment, go for it. If not, distract yourself and f*** off the worries.
15. Giving a fuck about material possessions.
A mansion and a load of cash in the bank feels always nice. But, do the f*** these things guarantee happiness?
Build a F***ing Life! Not a Mansion
16. Giving a fuck about Regrets
Accept what has gone before, make allowances for human error and move on.
The past cannot be undone, learn your lesson and leave. Don’t you f***ing waste your valuable time!
17. Giving a fuck about being good enough
What is “good enough”? Where is the international rule book that clarifies what “good enough” is?
As long as you feel happy with who you are, where you are and how far you have come, that is all that matters. Reserve your f***s for only the most f***worthy of situations. You would surely make your life a hell of a lot easier.
Failure would be less terrifying. Rejection less painful. Unpleasant necessities more pleasant and the unsavory shit sandwiches a little bit more savory. I mean, if we could only give a few fewer shits or a few more consciously-directed f***s, then life would feel pretty easy.