How Self-Awareness Can Improve Your Relationships?

Self Awareness Improve Relationships

 

Watch out this video to know about the relational self-awareness and navigating modern love:



In a marriage, it can become easy to lose your grip on this important commitment in your communication style. And the only way to lose your grip is to lose (or never have) self-awareness.

 

If communication is at the heart of a healthy relationship, how can self-awareness help?

Getting in touch with your own emotions isn’t as easy as you might think. And recognizing what emotions are at bat and what emotions are on-deck can be tricky, especially when tempers are flaring.

But you have your body to deliver powerful signals and information to you. Flushed cheeks, quickened heart rate and respiration, the tension in your muscles. These are all ways your body informs you of underlying emotional information.

Related: Lack of Communication in a Relationship Sometimes Lead to Divorce according to Studies

When you are self-aware, you don’t let that physical, sensory information go by without acknowledging it. You ask it to lead you to the underlying emotion. Are you angry? Afraid? Sad? Worried?

Once you pinpoint the underlying emotion that is manifesting in physical form, you can tap into the history behind it. Have I experienced this fear before? What was happening in my life at that time? Is this really the same circumstance, or is it just a trigger to those old feelings and fears?

You may also recognize belief systems, assumptions, and other derivatives of your personal history popping up to shape your reactions and behaviors. Self-awareness empowers you to own those influencers. It also helps you to separate their message from the message you are receiving from your partner. So, how does self-awareness improve your relationship?

Related: Why Couples Fall Out Of Love In Relationships

 

By dedicating time to the process of becoming self-aware, you (re)shape your communication. You are no longer a victim, but a facilitator of the change you want to see.

It doesn’t always feel good to revisit those old wounds whose scars like to get attention. But when you own them and take responsibility for how you live with them, you automatically shift the responses you get. You control your own behavior, soften the mood, and decrease the intensity between you and your partner. That’s how self-awareness improves your relationship.

All this because you took the time for self-examination.

All this because you learned and owned your own story.

All this because you became the change you wanted to see in your relationship.

Looking for more information about how you can have a happier life? You’ll find what you’re looking for in How To Become More Self-Aware.


Written by  Dr. Karen Finn

Originally appeared on Dr. Karen Finn

Dr. Karen Finn is a divorce and life coach. She helps her clients navigate the challenges of divorce – from the moment it enters their mind as a possible solution to the discontent they feel in their marriage (it’s not always the best answer), through the turmoil of getting divorced, and on through creating a fulfilling life post-divorce. You can learn more about Karen and her work on her website.

 

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