25 Effective Parenting Rules For Mothers With Sons

Parenting Rules Mothers With Sons

17. Remind him that practice makes perfect.

This doesn’t just apply to performance-based activities (like sports and music) but also applies to everything in life.  You become a better writer by writing.  You become a better listener by listening.  You become a better speaker by speaking.

Show your son this when he is just young enough to understand (that means from birth, folks – they are making sense of the world as soon as they arrive), practise trick-or-treating at your own front door before the real thing.  Practice how you will walk through airport security before a trip.

Practice how you order your own food from the fast-food cashier.  Practice, practice, practice.

18. Answer him when he asks, “Why?”

Answer him, or search for the answer together.  Show him the places to look for the answers (like his dad, or grandparents, or his aunts/uncles, or his books, or valid internet searches).  Pose the question to him so he can begin thinking about answers himself.

Someday, when he needs to ask questions he’s too embarrassed to ask you – he’ll know where to go to find the right answers.

19. Always carry band-aids and wipes on you.

..especially the wipes.

20. Let his dad teach him how to do things.

…without interrupting about how to do it the ‘right way.’  This is another amazing parenting tips for your sons. If you let his dad show and teach and discover with your son while he is growing up, someday down the road (after a short period of your son believing his dad knows nothing), he will come to the realization that his dad knows everything.

You will always be his mother, but in his grown-up man heart and mind, his dad will know the answers.  And this will be how, when your son is too busy with life to call and chat with his mom,  you will stay connected to what is happening in his life.  Because he will call his dad for answers, and his dad will secretly come and ask you.

Related: When A Mother Is Jealous of Her Daughter

21. Give him something to release his energy.

Drums, a pen, a punching bag, wide-open space, water, a dog.  Give him something to go crazy with – or he will use your stuff.  and then you’ll be sorry.

22. Build him forts.

Forts have the ability to make everyday normal stuff into magic.  Throw the couch cushions, a couple of blankets, and some clothespins and you can transform your living room into the cave of wonders.  For the rest of his life, he’ll be grateful to know that everyday normal stuff has the potential to be magical.

23. Take him to new places.

Because it will make his brain and his heart open up wider, and the ideas and questions and memories will rush in.

24. Kiss him.

Any mother of sons will tell you that little boys are so loving and sweet.  They can be harsh and wild and destructive during most of the day.  But there are these moments when they are so kind and sensitive and tender.  So much so that it can cause you to look around at the inward, reserved grown men in your life and think, ‘what happens in between that made you lose that?’

Let’s try to stop the cycle by kissing them when they’re loving and kissing them even more when they’re wild.

Kissing them when they’re 2 months and kissing them when they’re 16 years old. You’re the mom – you can go ahead and kiss him no matter how big he gets – and make sure he knows it. P.s. (this one is just as important for dad’s too).

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Linda

Good words! My son is… Read more »

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