5 Reasons Why You Get Emotionally Attached Too Soon



4. You make dating decisions based on your emotions rather than logic.

By basing your decisions on the emotion you become reactionary. For example, if a guy doesn’t text you back you get really mad and text something embarrassingly over reactive.

Or when you are feeling lonely, you instantly text him and want him to console you. Or when you’re feeling envious about another girl you seek validation from him.

In a healthy relationship, it is great to have someone there to listen to your emotions and be able to respond accordingly. However, you want to avoid becoming completely dependent on getting all of your emotional validation from one person.

Lastly, it is important to work on managing your own emotions. You have total control over your emotions. If you find you’re constantly reacting based on how you feel in the moment, then it’s important to take a step back and develop a practice to calm yourself before acting.


5. You don’t believe that you can be happy when you’re single.

The biggest reason why you get emotionally attached too soon in relationships is that you don’t believe you can be happy when you’re single. The moment that you become happy with your single life is the very moment a guy will come in and sweep you off your feet.

You can be happy when you’re single. It just takes a little bit of work every day.

P.S. – Knowing how to expertly navigate your emotions (and a man’s emotions) is the key to attracting the right guy into your life.

That’s what my Emotional Attraction Formula is all about, and you can check it out right here.


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Written By: Adam LoDolce
Originally Appeared on sexyconfidence.com
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5 Reasons Why You Get Emotionally Attached Too Soon

Adam LoDolce is the founder of Sexy Confidence. He is one of the top dating confidence experts in the world. After touring the world and speaking at over one hundred of the country's top universities (Notre Dame, University of Alabama, University of Texas, etc.), he's refocused his efforts to address a burning need: helping women build the right type of confidence to be successful with men. He's been coaching, writing, and speaking on dating dynamics for over four years now. You will find that his coaching style is extremely untraditional and yet, immensely effective. He has helped dozens of self-proclaimed helpless women find love within weeks (not months) and have also coached some of the most powerful and successful women on this planet (foreign and national government officials, fashion experts, corporate executives, etc.). He's an author and film producer, but quite honestly, he's just a regular dude who's truly found his passion.