You are the sign of everything soft. You have a soft heart and even softer attitude and you expect the same from the world. You are naive and think that everyone around you will be a nice person- and it does not end there. Libras tend to take every joke and jibe seriously and then come the waterworks. Our Libra friends cannot deal with even an iota of criticism and think that people are trying to hurt them even when they are just joking and engaging in friendly banter. There is a lot to the world- not everyone is trying to insult you.
For you, the reason is that you do not let people around you long enough. You want things to happen right immediately and the moment you think that it is a little different from what you expected it to be, you sprint and how. You need to learn how to give people an opportunity to show how they actually are and make you see why they should be around you and how you need them and finally, they are what you wanted them to be.
Having standards is not a bad thing, it is healthy and a simple way to find people that you deserve but if you have standards that are sky high, you can kiss all your relationships goodbye. You forget that people you date are humans as well, and they cannot be perfect all the time. It is too much to ask for, to expect that they will do exactly what you want and need all the time. Things take time and you have to learn to give this time to them and see how things pan out.
You feel like you will get hurt- no matter why. This is the reason why you have built up walls around you so high and thick that they are almost impenetrable. You fail to realise that doing this frustrates the people that you are dating, because they are trying to be your partner, someone who is trying to know and understand you. Learn to be nice and give people a chance.
You do everything half-assedly, especially relationships and that is not something that is going to fly. People have expectations and sometimes we have to live up to them because that is how you show that you love them and you care.
Being friendly is a great thing but flirtatiousness when you are dating someone would obviously be upsetting to them. You do not find in it you to regard your partner’s emotions, so learn to do that.
Which one are you?
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