Have you noticed someone mirroring your behavior? When someone mirrors your behavior and words, either of the two situations mentioned below can be there.
One can definitely figure it out by paying some attention. Let’s analyze both situations.
1. They like you
If this is the case then there must be some good qualities of yours which they might have liked. Why would someone adore the bad qualities of someone? This is actually good for you because it gives you a good name in society and at the same time, increases your self-confidence. Being a role model for someone is a real confidence booster.
2. They are trying to make you feel comfortable
If this is the case then to figure out, you need to pay close attention to their behaviors. No one is perfect and neither are you. Try saying something bad and check if they condone your words. Now, if they mirror your imperfections or bad habits as well or condone such things, then they are simply imitating you to make you feel comfortable or maybe to flatter you. Beware in such conditions.
In this way, you can figure out what is the case. Don’t be overconfident in the first case and try to be vigilant in the second.
Things like these happen when you climb ladders of success. A lot of people will start imitating you in order to get into your good books and would condone even your bad acts. A lot of these people are merely opportunists who are out there to milk your success for their own benefits. So, beware.
Hope this helps.
Stay healthy, Stay happy.
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