10. What is the best thing someone can do for you?
This can be a very useful question for you if you are looking to ask them out on a date and take things further. Everyone has something that makes them feel special and happy, and if you know what makes your crush tick, it’s like hitting the jackpot.
You can make them feel special exactly the way they want, and no wonder this is one of the best questions to ask your crush to test your compatibility!
11. Do you like to socialize on weekends, or do you like to stay at home and enjoy some alone time?
Finding out whether your crush is an introvert or an extrovert can help you test your compatibility in the most perfect way possible. Even though opposites do attract, to what degree both of you are different from each other, can help you figure out your chances of being in a happy relationship with them.
If you’re someone who loves to meet new people and your crush feels uncomfortable in a situation like this, then it’s best to know about this from the beginning. Being able to understand what makes your crush uncomfortable and how they like to recharge their batteries can pave the way for a strong, healthy relationship.
12. Who is your best friend in your family?
This can help you figure out how close they are to their family, and who they are closest to. You will also get an opportunity to understand their family dynamics in a much better and deeper way. Also, who they are closest to can speak volumes about how your crush is built – emotionally and mentally.
For example, if they are closest to their father, ask them why. If they are closest to their siblings, ask them what makes their relationship special. And in case, they tell you that they are not close to anybody, don’t try to probe too much, rather ask them gently why is it so.
13. What’s the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you?
The point of this question is to mainly break the ice, and have a good time with them. Opening up about their most embarrassing moments gets them to laugh, and laugh how! When you laugh out loud, you are full of dopamine which works towards fostering emotional connection and is most likely to keep both of you engaged in the conversation much longer.
So go on, and ask them their embarrassing memories, and be rest assured that you will have an amazing time, and the laughs will not just stop!
14. What does your dream date look like?
This is one of the boldest questions to ask your crush, but honestly, a very very important one to test your compatibility. If you know what they expect from their partner, then you will be able to plan your future dates exactly like that. Also, this question clearly puts forward your intentions and shows them that you’re interested.
Moreover, if you make their dream date a reality, then there’s a strong chance that they will reciprocate your feelings, and that’s exactly what you want, don’t you?
15. Do you have the mindset to be in a serious relationship right now?
Sometimes, you need to ask your crush some straightforward questions; it might surprise them or even shock them, but it’s necessary for you to know whether you have a future with them or not, or you’re just wasting your time. Ask them this question without any reservations, and see what they tell you.
If you feel unsure and shy about asking this bluntly, try to smartly insert it in the conversation you’re having. Instead of being blunt, ask them indirectly like this, “I am so turned off by the dating scene nowadays. What about you? Do you feel like dating and being in a serious relationship now?”
It is important to test your compatibility with your crush before diving headlong into a relationship with them. This will help both of you save a lot of your time and energy, and will make sure that you are not being impulsive. Asking these questions will give you a fair idea about whether or not you should have any hopes and expectations from them.
Want to know more about how you can test your compatibility? Check this video out below!