7. Nobody can love you the way I do.
Amazingly another piece of truth. Nobody else can love you in this way because none of it is real. This is all made-up in order to attract you and bind you to me because if you saw what I was really like (not that I would ever allow that to happen) you would run screaming and never return. Accordingly, I will love you in a way that you are unlikely to have experienced before by deluging you with desire and then nearly destroying you through malice and vitriolic hatred. I told you I was special.
8. I can’t believe we have only just met. I feel like I’ve known you forever. Let’s live together.
It feels familiar to me because you are giving me positive fuel just like your predecessor and the one before her and the one before her as well. I do not distinguish between you, not really, because you are all appliances to me which I want to ensnare and then drain as you pump out delicious fuel for me to consume. I say this though to make you feel special and because I am obviously so wonderful and brilliant you will be thrilled that someone like me wants to live with you. This will make you grab this marvelous opportunity before you lose it and then I have ensnared you.
9. I need you. I want you. I love you.
Sounds dramatic and romantic, doesn’t it? It makes you feel as if everything is focussed on you and I could not live without you. Notice how many times I used the word “I”? That’s because this is all about me and nothing to do with you save for what you can do for me. I really mean that I need your fuel, I want your fuel and I love your fuel.
10. You have saved me.
Yet more drama straight from the romantic handbook. I know your type. That is why I chose you. You like to fix, heal and save. You will have plenty to do in that regard, believe me, but that will come later. For now, what I really mean is that you have saved me having to look anywhere else for fuel. Time to feed.
The techniques of seduction used by the narcissist are always like a predator waiting for its kill. There is no love or affection there; only selfishness and manipulation.
Want to know more about how seduction is used by the narcissist? Check out this video below:
Written by H.G. Tudor Originally appeared on Narcsite.com
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I heard “soulmate” so many times, it’s completely lost all meaning.
He said all these things… for years. I was so high on all that love and attention. What a wonderful gentleman he was towards me. And then, his rage & contempt towards me arrived… then he became a victim of me. (in stark contrast to the manly man he had been). He ganged up with “our” friends wives, smeared and humiliated me, then moved in with his emeshed narc mom. She absolutely hated me the whole time we were together… and then she got him back after he discarded me.
Yes, he said I was the most important thing in his life. Not true. I am convenient. Now he knows I am leaving and is not even talking to me. I have no love left for him. He destroyed it. All about his past and his conquests. So sickening to hear. Get out while you can before you lose your soul.
These words… are EXACTLY the same as my devil narcissist bf came up with in the first months.. now i’m finally getting through this madness with opened eyes like never before. These posts like yours are my salvation and i hope it’ll help others the same as it helped me in my narcissistic abuse recovery journey. Good luck everyone, do your best to regain your strenght, because we deserve our own love. And we’re not alone, we’re gonna get throught this cause we’re survivors, angels.