You never have to be afraid that they will pass judgement on you when you are mentally unwell or when something small has triggered you into a breakdown. That is the reality of their lives and they are fully aware that you cannot control it anymore than they can. They will do their best to help you deal with these issues.
They will never make light or joke about the problems you’re facing. You know how annoying it is when you are genuinely upset and someone tells you you’re just overreacting? A person who has struggle with anxiety will never, ever do that to you because they have heard it so many times and they know how much it can hurt when others do not respect your emotions.
People with anxiety know that true love does not come knocking everyday.
They knew that it is rare and precious and beautiful. So, they will treasure you and what you have together every single moment of every day.
Relationships take effort and they will be willing to give it all the time and energy that they can possibly put in. Their open nature allows them to sit down and sort out every single issue so that there is nothing but raw honesty between the two of you. You will never feel like you’re being taken for granted because they know that this is a once in a lifetime thing.
You have chosen to love a beautiful person. What you need to remember is that their anxiety is only one part of them. It is not all that they are and it shouldn’t be all that your relationship is. When you look past it, there is a real human being with all the same hopes and fears as everyone else.
Understand that they are just a little bent in places but not completely broken. They might actually be the strongest people you’ll ever meet because they have fought so many battles and will always be fighting a war. They have faced many challenges which have left bruises and scars. But still they have emerged victorious, clinging to their selves for dear life.
In the end, remember that winning their love is the best thing that will ever happen to you.
Try to be the best version of yourself because that is what they will always try to give you, even if they don’t ask for the same in return. Treasure them in the same way that they treasure you and never take them for granted. They have suffered enough for a few lifetimes so try to not cause them any more pain than what they have already felt.
You can be at peace knowing that you have found what so many spend their lives searching for and as your relationship grows and blossoms, you will be one of the happiest people on earth.
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