4. They are being extra nice.
I have a friend who was having an affair. One day, she and her lover went to the beach and spent the day lying in the sun and playing in the surf. On her way home from the beach, stopped at her husbands’ office with a late lunch. She suggested that they take a walk and she asked him about his day. He was so thankful that she took an interest in him and stopped by and she was able to assuage her guilt at her behavior by being super nice.
Is your partner doing things that they might not have done before? Do you sometimes feel like their attention is intentional?
Of course, there are many reasons that your person is being extra nice to you but, if you find it is happening more often than usual, it could be a sign that your partner might be being unfaithful.
5. You can’t always find them.
A client of mine‘s mother was dying of cancer and she was the one who was taking care of her. She was spending a lot of time at her mother’s house as she dealt with her illness.
My client started to notice that her stepfather would disappear. He bought himself a new car and spent a lot of time out driving. He would say he was going out to lunch with friends only to not be reachable or to come home with a vague story of how plans have changed. He would work late. He would be late to respond if she called.
After her mother died, my client discovered that her stepfather had been having an affair. She had always suspected as such because of his behavior and she was very thankful that her mother never found out.
If you are finding that your person is often unreachable, it’s definitely a sign that they might be being unfaithful.
Needing to look out for signs that your partner might be being unfaithful is a horrible thing to have to do.
No one wants to learn that the person they love might be having an affair and looking for the signs that this might be true can be devastating.
As I said before, many of these signs could mean something other than your partner might be having an affair but, if more than one of these signs applies to them, it might be time to face up to this possibility and figure out the next steps.
If your partner is distracted, if they are moody, if they look different and are acting extra nice, or if they disappear without explanation, your partner just might be having an affair and I am so very sorry.
But knowledge is power and with this power, you can decide what you want your next steps to be so you can get through this and out the other side intact.
You can do this! I promise.
Written By: Mitzi Bockmann Originally Appeared On: Let Your Dreams Begin