4 Types Of Parenting Styles In Psychology: What Kind Of A Parent Are You?

4 Types Of Parenting Styles In Psychology: What Kind Of A Parent Are You?

 

2. Authoritative Parenting

Being authoritative is very different from being an authoritarian parent. This type of parenting is believed to be the best approach to parenting. Authoritative parents set rules for their children but they also let their kids understand why these rules are important. They show both strictness and warmth. Not only they try to understand their children’s perspective, these parents are also responsive to the needs of their children. As they have realistic expectations from their kids, the children tend to be responsible as adults with excellent problem-solving and decision-making skills.

According to the American Psychological Association (APA), authoritative parents are “nurturing, responsive, and supportive, yet set firm limits for their children. Children raised with this style tend to be friendly, energetic, cheerful, self-reliant, self-controlled, curious, cooperative and achievement-oriented.

 

One of the primary differences between being authoritative and authoritarian is, this type of parents tend to “control children’s behavior by explaining rules, discussing, and reasoning.” Authoritative parents are not only reasonable and understanding, they are affectionate, nurturing and supportive.

Authoritative parenting style involves some of these characteristics:

  • Expectations are clearly stated and children can add inputs
  • Rules are clear and justified
  • Communication is appropriate for the child to understand and express
  • Children are happy and independent with good self-esteem
  • Kids have good social skills with excellent academic success
  • Children grow up to be responsible adults with better mental health 

Amy Morin explains “Authoritative parents invest time and energy into preventing behavior problems before they start. They also use positive discipline strategies to reinforce good behavior.” She adds “Researchers have found kids who have authoritative parents are most likely to become responsible adults who feel comfortable expressing their opinions.”

Also read: Understanding The Psychology Behind A Child’s Behavior

 

3. Permissive parenting 

Permissive parents tend to be warm and affectionate, but are less likely to be strict or set any rules for their children. These parents are responsive to their kids needs but tend to have a more friendly parent-child relationship. As they have low expectations regarding self-control and maturity, their children have difficulty following authority and rules when they grow up.

Although they love their children a lot, they need to realize the importance of setting boundaries. Allowing your children to do what they want can be detrimental in the long run. This is one of the parenting styles in psychology that can do more harm than good. The APA explains, “In this parenting style, parents are warm, but lax. Children raised with this parenting style tend to be impulsive, rebellious, aimless, domineering, aggressive and low in self-reliance, self-control and achievement.

 

Some common characteristics of this style of parenting are:

  • Parents are caring and communication is open
  • Children take decisions instead of following rules
  • Parents have low expectations
  • Children have poor self-control and unable to follow rules
  • Children develop egocentric behavior
  • As adults, these children have problems in social interactions & relationships 

Author Amy Morin writes that permissive parents “encourage their children to talk with them about their problems, but they usually don’t put much effort into discouraging poor choices or bad behavior.” Children of such parents often grow up with behavioral problems and have “have low self-esteem and may report a lot of sadness. They’re also at a higher risk for health problems, like obesity,” she adds.

Also read: 5 Practical Things You Can Do For Building Your Child’s Self-Confidence

 

4. Uninvolved Parenting

These types of parents are usually detached and show neither strictness nor warmth. They may either neglect the needs of their kids or meet only the basic needs. Uninvolved or neglectful parents tend to have mental health issues or suffer from substance abuse or  financial stress. This type of parents offer excessive freedom to their children and have no expectations or boundaries. They either consciously stay detached from their children or may be confused about how to be a parent. Hence, the kids are compelled to raise themselves.

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