Breaking Free Of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Breaking Free Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

You practice using coping skills for a week or so – long enough that they have become easy to perform.

During that week you have given a lot of thought as to what small steps you will use to gradually but surely put a stranglehold on this fear of touching doorknobs. You decided to begin the process by waiting a full minute to wash your hands after touching a doorknob. This will be hard, that much is certain. But you feel confident that you can wait that long. After all, you sometimes wait that long to wash your hands simply because there are no sinks with soap nearby every doorknob you touch.



Taking control, however, making the delay intentional, feels good. You’re surprised to learn that even such a small step as waiting to wash your hands for a minute gives you a sense of control.

The next step you decided upon was to push the delay of handwashing from one minute to five minutes. When first writing this step down you could feel your throat tighten with anxiety.

“Five minutes sounds like forever when germs are crawling all over your hands, seeping into the pores of your skin and …” You stop yourself mid-thought.

Taking a deep breath, you redirect your thinking. “No, the germs are not sneaking into my blood system through the pores on my skin. I’ve got to stop being so dramatic. This is a perfectly good goal. I can do five minutes.”

At this point, you move on to write down several more steps you’ll need to take to get over the contamination fear. But only as it pertains to touching doorknobs. Other forms of contamination can be tackled after you have this victory under your belt.

The next step you wrote down was to limit yourself to ten hand washings a day no matter how many doorknobs you had cozied up with.

Three more steps after that were then put on the list. The final step, the biggest challenge, would be to touch a public bathroom doorknob AND NOT WASH YOUR HANDS until just before your next meal.

That was a really tough one. A lot of thought went into identifying that goal and deciding to put it on the list. At first, it seemed extreme, but you soon realized that if you really wanted to be free from this contamination fear you had to go the extra mile. Once you were able to successfully complete this step you would be in control.

And when that happened, you were not about to give away the freedom you fought so hard to win.

PRO TIP This same system can be used on most fears, not just those related to OCD.



To win the fight against OCD you must punch back against the fear. Giving in to the fear only makes it stronger.

OCD is a thief that robs you of happiness. It creates obstacles making it nearly impossible for you to reach your potential. OCD is your enemy.

Treat it that way and punch back against the fear – as hard as you can.

Keep punching until you’ve beaten it, and won the freedom from fear that you’ve desired all of these years.

And don’t forget… no giving up.

Never ever give up. I know, you will have setbacks. There may be times when you feel defeated. When you momentarily back away and don’t face your fear.

That’s not the end of the world.

Pick yourself up. Dust yourself off, and charge forward another time. And as many times as it takes after that as well. Continue to do this and you will ultimately prevail.

So, what are you waiting for? You have a happier, fuller life waiting. Go get after it.

If you want to read more blogs by Forrest Talley, then visit his website, Forrest Talley.



“This Way Up” OCD Course

For Children

Up And Down The Worry Hill   Aureen Wagner, Ph.D.

What To Do When Your Brain Gets Stuck  Dawn Huebner and Bonnie Matthews

For Teens

Talking Back to OCD: The Program That Helps Kids and Teens Say “No Way” — and Parents Say “Way to Go.” John S. March (Author), Christine M. Benton  (Contributor)

For Adults

The OCD Workbook: Your Guide to Breaking Free from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. Bruce M. Hyman (Author), Cherry Pedrick (Author)

Brain Lock, Twentieth Anniversary Edition: Free Yourself from Obsessive-Compulsive Behavior.  Jeffrey M. Schwartz  (Author)

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