7. The guy who is commitment phobic
If the guy doesn’t want to commit at all, you can’t expect a secure future with him. These types of guys don’t want to tie themselves to anyone and want to live on their terms and conditions. They want to be vulnerable or emotionally intimate with anyone. If you are looking for a long-term, holistic and fulfilling relationship, stay away from them.
8. The guy who doesn’t know how to have a conversation with you
In a relationship, there would invariably be a difference of opinion, and two mature individuals can find a way through by talking it out and having a healthy discussion.
But if you are with a guy who is immature to have difficult conversations in a healthy way, you will be screwed.
These kinds of guys can’t hold a conversation if the situation gets difficult or tricky. They lack the maturity to solve the problem by constructive discussions. They would rather run away from the problem than confronting them.
If you end up marrying such a guy, you would time and again find yourself in stressful situations where you would be the only one trying to solve a problem with no help or support from the other side.
It is better to stay away from them.
“So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, every day. You and me… every day.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook