NARCISSISTS AND EMPATHS: THE EGO DYNAMIC

 March 01, 2016

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Narcissists, on the other hand, don’t have an authentic self.  If they had one as a child, it was stifled by ego as a defense mechanism.  Their ego demands attention to its hurts, traumas and concerns in a way that insists upon separation and control.  This prevents their ability to bond with other people, and explains why their whole concept of reality consists of fulfilling the demands of their ego.  Therefore, they use people without concern for the pain and trauma they cause them.

When the Empath and Narcissist enter into a relationship together, it creates a magnetic, yet vibrationally dysfunctional union because the Empath gives to the point of complete and utter exhaustion.  They will give every last effort to “fix” the Narcissist and the relationship, but it never happens.  The Narcissist cannot assess another’s perspective because their ego won’t allow that, thus there is no motive for the Narcissist to change.  In fact, attempts to “help” the Narcissist and draw attention to their dysfunctional behaviors often make the Narcissist worse because it contradicts the cravings of their ego.

It also profoundly disorients the Empath, who is often destroyed by the relationship.  However, it’s at this point that the unaware Empath experiences a soul crisis and comes to realize what they are.  Though the experience with the Narcissist is painful and overwhelming, the Empath usually learns their soul lessons and undergoes an awakening, whereas the Narcissist remains the same.

Written by Kim Saeed

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Resources:
Broederlow, C. (2013, October 24). 30 traits of an Empath (How to know if you’re an Empath). Retrieved April 1, 2014, fromhttp://themindunleashed.org/2013/10/30-traits-of-empath.html
 Happe, M. (2011, August 12). The Relationship between Narcissism and Codependency. Retrieved April 3, 2014, fromhttps://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/the-relationship-between-narcissism-and-codependency/
Lemieux, M. (2013, November 1). Spiritual Warrior Journals (Blog): 50 Traits of being an Empath (Vulnerabilities) – Part II:. Retrieved April 7, 2014, fromhttp://myspiritualjournals.blogspot.com/2013/11/50-traits-of-being-empath-part-II.html
 

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50 comments on “NARCISSISTS AND EMPATHS: THE EGO DYNAMIC

  1. “the Empath usually learns their soul lessons and undergoes an awakening” – yep thats what happened

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