Why Narcissists Can’t Stand You Being Happy

narcissist cant stand you being happy

I can’t convince you of this if you stay rolling around with somebody who detests your achievements. This is why I am so passionate about granting people the tools to help heal and get out of this insanity and atrocity. It’s because I love all of you, I care about you, and I know that you need to let go of the battle with the narcissist that you’re never going to win and turn inwards to heal so that you can.

Then you will know that you deserve better. Then you will be a force that will never again accept that that behaviour is okay.

Related: 16 Signs of Insecurity In A Narcissistic Person

You Deserve Better

You will be full and healed enough to walk away from somebody who behaves like that until you have the inner power and truth to meet a normal person.

I promise you, normal people who are happy for you are so much more the norm and the consistency than what that rubbish is. That’s normal. That other stuff is not normal.

I really want you to get clear that this narcissistic person in your life who’s not happy for you and tries to strip your life force down when things are good for you, could be a family member. They could be a friend who treats you like this, they don’t have to be an intimate partner and it is still not okay.

When I say it’s not okay, doesn’t mean ripping back into them and trying to get them to get it. This isn’t about them getting it, this is about you getting it. “That’s not okay for me. Goodbye. I do not accept that behavior. I do not consent to that behavior in my life anymore which means you don’t get anything of me anymore.” That’s where you need to get to.


I hope that that’s helped. I’m really passionate about this because as an achieving woman who loves to shine this is something I struggled with, with narcissistic individuals my entire life. I dimmed down and I tried to keep them safe and feeling secure. You know what? Go to hell with that, seriously.

You are here to live your life out loud as you’re so free to be yourself. If other people can’t deal with it, too bad because once you get okay with it you will start attracting people who are totally okay with it. That’s the journey you’re meant to live.

Okay, so let’s get started on your journey to sort this out if this speaks to you so that you can get clear about it, as well as so many of the other things that happen with narcissistic abuse.

You can do this by connecting to my free quiz, which is going to give you powerful insight into exactly what you’re dealing with and what level of narcissism that this hurtful person is operating at as well as how to recover from it.

Come on this journey with me to claim your power and heal from the inside out. You can do that by clicking this link.

Written By Melanie Tonia Evans 
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Narcissists can never stand you being happy, no matter what you do because the only way they can ever feel better about themselves is by seeing you broken and unhappy. The only way they can feel satisfied with who they are and how they are is by seeing you miserable, heartbroken, and morose.

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