You are only necessary to them so that they can siphon you out for their False Self’s energy needs, and then when that is done you are just as likely to be discarded and thrown in the gutter as you were last time.
It’s so important to understand this so that you don’t go there.
If the Narcissist Lost Their Job
It is likely you will be blamed, or the narcissist will play on your heartstrings to get you to financially support them. Or just simply guilt you or demand that you do.
Or, the narcissist will jump ship onto a better deal that will provide what the narcissist needs to buffer up their False Self again.
It is not likely that you will be dealing with a stable, calm, resourceful, adaptable person who takes personal responsibility for their life.
Shoring Yourself Up Against a Narcissist in Crisis
My heart goes out to all of you who are dealing with a narcissist during this pandemic. I know that the suffering that you are going through is indescribable.
But yet, this is a huge opportunity to up-level, even as hard as it may seem to do so.
It’s so true, in times of calamity, that we have the grist and impetus to go for our greatest growth. Because we need to!
I know that there are many of you in this amazing community who have really knuckled down into your deep inner work and are emerging stronger and stronger against narcissists as a result of this.
In many cases, this is despite everything that the narcissist is trying to throw at you.
I am so proud of you!
For those of you who don’t yet know how this is possible, and can’t even imagine getting there, I promise you with all my heart that it is possible and you can achieve this.
And, I am completely dedicated to helping you achieve this.
To help you do this, I am opening up another Free Masterclass, which I know is really needed at this time.
It is on April 29th. In this special event, I share with you real processes to get relief, take your power back and break the binds from any narcissist in your life, regardless of how much they’ve hurt or damaged you.
Even despite the predicament that you may be in right now.
Please know that if you can’t make this event live, you will receive a recording as a result of signing up, which you can watch and listen to at a time that suits you, in the comfort of your own home.
Again, this event is completely free, and I know how much it can help you.
I can’t wait to join you in it.
And as always, I look forward to answering your comments and your questions below.
When it comes to dealing with narcissists, the more narcissistic supply you provide them with, the more they will shower their toxicity on you. The moment you stop giving into their manipulations and tricks, they lose. They might resort to hoovering, but as long as you stand your ground, you will win. Narcissistic supply is the backbone of narcissism, and if they don’t get it, they are absolutely powerless.