I know you are probably ripping your hair out now by some of the things that I have said, but I really don’t care. You said to me the night of my husband’s funeral, ‘I am not a bad man Anne.’
You know, I believed that for a very long time and felt sorry for you because you had never found happiness in your life. I don’t think you ever will. I know that I am not the sort of person who can be happy hating someone but I know that for a long period of time I was very close to that……
I don’t hate you now but I don’t know that I can ever forgive you. Maybe in time. I hope so. That would make me a better person if I can. The reason I have sent you this letter is for me. This is my closure.
This worked for me. I think we all need to do what is right for each of us as an individual. This chapter of my life is now over.
Written by Anne McCrea Originally appeared on Narcissist And Emotional Abuse Printed with permission Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse, Shattering the Illusion is now available on Amazon.