I do things that I like and that symbolizes how happy I am with myself and that I am open to a new partner in my life with the same values and intentions as mine.
Is there too much clutter in your house? Get rid of it. A house that is in order creates the same type of mind.
Old clutter of exes can be thrown out also things you had in your feeling down period. Divide your stuff into what serves you and whatnot. The music you won’t listen to anymore, books you won’t read, old bills, clothes? Get rid of them all.
Accept that there is no guarantee for the future. Accept that if you meet someone it won’t be the same every day. He or she will have their ups and downs. After a few years, a bit of boredom can exist. When you fall in love you can feel insecure about your new partner, afraid that he/she will leave, that they will change when things happen in their lives. It will not always be joy and laughter. You can become sick, have burnout, feel disappointed.
Adjust your expectations. Try to be yourself and talk about your feelings, let your feelings be! Love and hate go hand in hand. Your love and happiness can be influenced by all sorts of circumstances and feelings; it is up to you both if you want to continue your journey together or not.
Sadness is a part of love, let it all be! Spirituality is letting things go by as the wind, see it, observe and let it go. See your partner each day from a new angle and not as from the past. Do you want to continue your life journey with this new person? Then go for it, just remember love is freedom, you can stop anytime you can’t be yourself anymore, feel unhappy or realize that your partner is hindering your journey. This is not real love anymore. Take responsibility for your feelings and your life and leave.
The ‘new you‘.
Written by Author/healer/coach/journalist,
Leda de Zwaan
Leda is a writer, speaker, journalist, singer, and Coach of the New Energy. She specializes in Add/HSP, twin soul- and soulmate relationships, Energetic Clearance, Self-Mastership, Cosmic Marriage, Self-Love, 5D detoxes on every level. Or how about Creating a New Life, Trauma-Healings, Mission-Coaching, Karma cleansing, Regression-therapy, and Personalized Meditations. She is an entrepreneur to guide towards a new global shift. She also gives counseling & advice to Institutes and Organisations and researches on many subjects to Global Awareness, Universal Human Rights, Energy-management, Sustainability, Science, Communication, Unification, Health-Awareness and New Ways of thinking.
She publishes awakening, activating, and consciousness-raising texts and films. Her goal is to shed light to take new paths. She was a pioneer that broke trails in many kinds of areas.
She tries to re-connect you – and Every part of the chain – with your Inner voice, your True Unique Essence of Self-Mastery, Wisdom, Knowledge, and Self-Love. Towards a New Earth, in the middle of the Shift. So-called ‘ New Energy;- As she calls her mission. Her website can be found at: www.enlighteningmedia.com; Enlightening Media Facebook
Written By Leda De Zwaan Originally Appeared In Enlightening Media