Be honest with yourself. Don’t say ‘they could be if only…’ If your person isn’t who you would want them to be right now, let them go. People might change but only if they want to. Don’t love someone for who they could be.
Your person is out there and they aren’t the person who just let you go.
Knowing how to make peace with letting go of someone who left you is an important part of moving forward.
If you hold onto anger and resentment, getting past your person and finding a healthy and happy relationship will be impossible.
So, make sure you mourn the end of your relationship, make a list of things that you know weren’t good in the relationship, let go of your victim mentality, don’t sabotage yourself, and look ahead to the future instead of looking back.
Related: The 5 Stages of Moving On
I know that it feels impossible now but, if you can make peace with letting go of someone who left you, you will be able to move forward and get the life, and love, that you have always dreamed of.
If you have made this far you must really struggling with letting go of someone who left you.
Let me help you, NOW, before the pain overwhelms you. Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org, or click here, and let’s get started.
Written By Mitzi Bockmann Originally Appeared In Let Your Dreams Begin