A few times per week, you choose the restaurant for once. Choose the wine, the movie, the position, and let him know that you have your own will power.
Flirt with guys a little bit.
This one is a true test of your willpower and it’s where most women chicken out.
They’ll say, “Oh I can never do that, Carlos.” And yet you do it all the time anyway.
I’m not saying to lead on some other guy, but you have every right to feel the desire of other men. It’s what you really want and that’s not cheating. That’s just checking your market value, honey.
Change your access codes and passwords.
Make him wonder what’s up all of a sudden even if nothing is.
He might be feeling entitled to get into your phone or your computer but that’s not part of the deal. The more questions he’s wondering about you, the more he’s thinking about you.
There’s nothing wrong with reminding a guy what he’s got in your relationship.
He’s not going to just suddenly wake up in the middle of the night, roll over, wake you up and start telling you how much he appreciates and loves you.
Nope. Not going to happen.
“No one really appreciates what they have until it’s gone” as the saying goes. You don’t have to go that far and you shouldn’t wait that long.
Remind him now about how he could lose you or you’re going to find him taking a chance on the next one that comes along. It’s up to you to keep your value first and foremost in his mind.
Human beings are not naturally wired for appreciation.
Don’t risk your relationship with his ability to remember how valuable you are to him.
Make it happen.
Here’s an interesting video that you may find helpful:
Let him know he’s losing you
It won’t be easy to make your man realize that he’s losing you. It might take some time and effort on your part for him to get the subtle cues and hints and come to his senses. Follow the tips and pointers mentioned here to make sure you’re not taken for granted by your man, whether you choose to stay with him or not. These tips will make him realize how he took your love for granted and make him feel sorry after he realizes it.
Listen to your heart, mind and gut instincts as they will tell you when you need to leave and find the man you truly deserve.
Want to know how to find the right man? Read How To Choose A Life Partner Wisely