4. You’re unpredictable and mysterious.
Number four is being unpredictable, mysterious, and surprising.
It’s like going out to gamble. People get addicted to gambling because of how unpredictable it is, right?
Sometimes they win, sometimes they lose.
There are all these different things going on. Gambling triggers all different emotions and activates the dopamine receptors in the brain. You feel floods of different emotions.
What ends up happening is it becomes addictive, right?
BEING UNPREDICTABLE IS THE KEY TO MAKING A GUY FEEL REALLY ADDICTED TO YOU AND BEING TOTALLY OBSESSED.
So if you want a guy to be really, really into you, be unpredictable.
Don’t do the same thing all the time.
Don’t say the same thing all the time.
Again, there’s extremes of being mysterious and unpredictable.
One extreme is being totally predictable where it’s the same thing every single time no matter what. It’s like having chicken for dinner every night.
The other side is being massively unpredictable, which is going too far.
When guys start to think that women are crazy is when they’re totally unpredictable. They think, “Wow, I have no idea what’s going on with her she’s completely out of her mind.”
You want to be somewhere in the middle.
You want to be in this space where you’re not predictable but you’re also not crazy but you give him a lot of different emotions to feel you do a whole bunch of different things.
All of these things are going to leave him wanting more.
You really want to give him the feeling that he wants more and you’re different from all the other bland, boring women that he meets out there.
Instead, you’re this really interesting, special, high value, unpredictable, interesting, attractive, confident woman.
A woman like that is just unbelievably attractive to any guy.
I want to share some words you can tell him that will make him want to give you the love you’ve always dreamed of…
These words form something I call a “Love Frame” and make him feel like it’s his life’s mission to treat you like a queen.
If you’re struggling to get him to “step up” and give you the romance you’ve always wanted, you need to watch this video right now…
Written by: Matthew Coast
Originally appeared on: Attract The One