2. You feel attractive, valuable and confident.
The second way to make him feel weak and crazy about you is actually a mindset component.
This mindset component is feeling attractive, valuable, and confident in yourself.
The reason this is really powerful is because men are naturally drawn to women that are confident.
Men can pick up on like subtle things and feelings that are going on with a woman. If you come to an interaction and you feel really insecure, most guys can pick up on that. If he’s talking to you, he can pick up on you feeling insecure and not valuable.
You’re going to project that insecurity in what you say when you’re talking to him.
ON THE OTHER HAND, IF YOU FEEL CONFIDENT, VALUABLE AND ATTRACTIVE, HE’S GOING TO PICK UP ON THAT AS WELL.
In his subconscious mind, he’s going to think, “Maybe she really IS all of these things.”
Even if maybe he wouldn’t normally think that about a woman that he just met.
I had a mentor that used to tell me, “She who is the most certain, always wins.”
So if you’re the most certain about who you are and how you feel, that kind of gets transferred to other people.
If you believe that you’re confident, if you believe that you’re attractive, if you believe that you’re valuable, then the people around you— men and women— will start to look at you that way no matter what, right?
It breaks their systems of what they believe and all of a sudden they take on your perspective.
So what you want to do is you want to spend time figuring out what makes you feel confident.
Spend time figuring out what makes you feel attractive and valuable. Learn more about how that works in your life.
WHAT KIND OF THINGS DO YOU NEED TO DO TO FEEL CONFIDENT?
Generally, being good at something makes you feel confident, right?
Knowing what to say and do in certain situations is what makes people feel confident or attractive.
What can you wear?
How can you look?
How can you work with yourself?
How can you feel about yourself to make yourself feel attractive or valuable?
What things do you need to have in your life to make you feel like a valuable person?
Working on those things can be incredibly powerful and make a guy feel like you’re an amazing woman.
3. You focus on what he feels when he’s around you.
This is where we get into some of the really, really good stuff.
Number three is focusing on what he feels when he’s around you.
A GUY NEEDS TO FEEL GOOD WHEN HE’S AROUND YOU BUT A GUY DOESN’T ONLY NEED TO FEEL GOOD WHEN HE’S AROUND YOU.
It’s like if you went to a movie theater, right, and you watched a movie and the movie was just fun the whole time.
It might be kind of interesting but it probably wouldn’t be that memorable. You know you’d leave the theater and you’d be like, “Oh, it was good. I enjoyed it and it was fun.”
However, the best movies out there don’t just make you feel one emotion, right?
They take you to a roller coaster ride.
You’re in there, you’re smiling, you’re laughing, you’re feeling anticipation, the thrill, right?
You get scared maybe.
Maybe there’s a point where you’re like crying.
It takes you through a whole bunch of different emotions.
When you get to the end of the movie you’re like, “Oh man, that was so awesome,” because you experienced all these different things.
Feeling all these different types of emotions can be addictive and it can make a guy feel crazy about you and addicted to being around your presence.