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The Main Traits Of A Loving, Long Lasting Relationship

The Main Traits Of A Loving, Long Lasting Relationship2

A long lasting relationship usually has the following traits:

-You have similar backgrounds, pasts or experiences

-You share similar core values in life

-A friendship is the base of your relationship

-You can be completely vulnerable with them

Make a list of the things you really liked in a past relationship, and then one with the things you never want to experience again. Visualize a person who is a mix of the things you bring from your past experiences. Imagine an ex with certain traits who hurt you tremendously. When you meet someone new, it will be a wake-up call when you recognize these traits.

Learn from them and step out of the interaction. You won’t make the same mistake twice.

Many times, people fall in love with a person who resembles their parent, and depending on your relationship with your family, this can be a good or bad thing.

Could you be with this person for longer than a year and would there still be an energetic spark? Is it exiting to see each other every time? Is the relationship developing, and continually growing?

Can this person understand you when you are angry, frustrated or just in a bad mood? Do they love all aspects of you?

It’s good to fight to a degree when it is constructive. If you can hear each other and create a new understanding that leaves both people with more energy than before, that is an amazingly healthy relationship. When you can create more energy for each other through communication, you can always lift each other up.

Remember: The soul ALWAYS trumps the ego. When a very strong energetic soul connection enters your life, it will open up all kinds of new experience, whether you are ready or not.

Last but not least:
A certain kind of tension is good. Many people like to spice it up in their relationships. It can be sexual, intellectual, emotional or any kind of energetic spark!
It’s important to be truthful with one another, a healthy kind of tension keeps you on your toes; like a never-ending adventure.


Text and article written By Leda.
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Leda is a writer, speaker, journalist, singer, and Coach of the New Energy. She specializes in Add/HSP, twinsoul- and soulmate relationships, Energetic Clearence, Self-Mastership, Cosmic Marriage, Self-Love, 5D detoxes on every level. Or how about: Creating a New Life,  Trauma-Healings, Mission-Coaching, Karma cleansing, Regression-therapy, and Personalized Meditations. She is an entrepreneur to guide towards a new global shift. She also gives counseling & advice to Institutes and Organisations and researches on many subjects to Global Awareness, Univeral Human Rights, Energy-management, Sustainability, Science, Communication, Unification, Health-Awareness and New Ways of thinking.

She tries to re-connect you – and Every part of the chain – with your Inner voice,  Our True Unique Essence of Self-Mastery, Wisdom, Knowledge and Self-Love. Towards a New Earth, in the middle of the Shift. So-called ‘ New Energy;- As she calls her mission. Her website can be found at:

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Leda is a writer, speaker, journalist, singer, and Coach of the New Energy. She specializes in Add/HSP, twin soul- and soulmate relationships, Energetic Clearance, Self-Mastership, Cosmic Marriage, Self-Love, 5D detoxes on every level. Or how about Creating a New Life, Trauma-Healings, Mission-Coaching, Karma cleansing, Regression-therapy, and Personalized Meditations. She is an entrepreneur to guide towards a new global shift. She also gives counseling & advice to Institutes and Organisations and researches on many subjects to Global Awareness, Univeral Human Rights, Energy-management, Sustainability, Science, Communication, Unification, Health-Awareness and New Ways of thinking. She tries to reconnect you - and Every part of the chain - with your Inner voice, Our True Unique Essence of Self-Mastery, Wisdom, Knowledge, and Self-Love. Towards a New Earth, in the middle of the Shift. So-called New Energy;- As she calls her mission. Her website can be found at: www.enlighteningmedia.comEnlightening Media FacebookView Author posts