3. Facial expressions and gestures.
When you see someone cover their mouth with their hands, or even keep their hands close to their mouth, know that they are not being completely honest. Putting your hands on your mouth and covering them is a way to avoid the lies from tumbling out from the mouth. People who are honest will never feel the need to cover their mouths and will speak to you openly without displaying even a hint of discomfort and distress.
Another indication of lying is when someone touches their nose frequently and seems to always fidget with it. The reason behind this is when you are lying, a lot of adrenaline rushes to the capillaries of your nose, causing it to feel itchy and uncomfortable. That’s why you will notice that dubious and shady people tend to always itch their noses unintentionally while talking to others.
Additionally, if someone’s mouth appears hard and tense, and their lips thin and pursed, it’s a major sign of distress.
One more interesting thing you can look out for if you suspect someone of lying, is seeing whether their complexion changes or not. If you notice someone go white as a ghost while speaking, it might hint towards them being deceitful, and this happens due to the blood rushing out their faces. Too much sweating or dryness in the eyes and mouth leads to licking and biting lips, swallowing constantly, and blinking repeatedly – all signs of lying and untruthfulness.
4. The tone and way of talking.
Vocal indicators can go a long way in helping you understand whether you are dealing with a liar or not. Their voice pitch, voice modulation, and tone can accurately give away their motives, and help you understand perfectly whether you are dealing with someone honest, or you are being taken for a ride.
Change in tone and volume
When someone raises their voice while talking to you, or they start talking to you in a harsh and mean tone, it’s a sign that they are not being completely honest. A sudden change in tone and volume is points to the fact that they are getting defensive and agitated and by raising their voice, they are trying to intimidate you into believing their version of the story.
Speaking in a high-pitched voice
When someone is nervous and apprehensive of being called out on their bluff, you will notice that they will start talking in a high-pitched voice. This is because when people are nervous and uncomfortable, their vocal cords tighten up, which is a natural reaction to stress, thereby leading to a high-pitched voice.
Additionally, you might also notice them having a creaky type of voice. Clearing their throat multiple times while speaking is also a huge sign of lying and dishonesty, which is caused due to the discomfort of having tightened muscles.
Here are a few more vocal indicators you can look out for:
- Saying the same thing over and over again.
- Stammering and stuttering.
- Getting offended very easily.
- Deviating from questions.
- Providing too many details.
- Overstating their opinions.
- Speaking in a shaky voice.
- Either talking very fast, or talking extremely slow.
- Trying to stall the conversation so that they have more time to make up lies.
5. Body language cues.
When someone is being untruthful with you, you will notice that they cannot sit or stand still for a long time. They will constantly be fidgeting and moving from one place to another. Shuffling their feet, cocking their head to one side, or constantly rocking their body – all of these are signs of being a liar. When someone is nervous, there are fluctuations in their nervous system, which causes them to feel tingles and itches in their body, leading to constant fidgeting and movement.
Playing with their hair, rubbing their eyes, scratching their hands, neck, or back, and trying to avoid eye contact, are strong signs of lying.
A few more body language cues you can look out for when it comes to lying:
- Leaning away, and trying to put distance between you and them.
- Gulping and swallowing frequently.
- Trembling and shaking.
- Nodding a lot.
The next time, you feel like you are being lied to, keep in mind these pointers, and you will see clearly who is honest and who is not. Researchers and experts have relied on these factors for a very long time, to differentiate between people who are honest and people who are lying, and you can do the same too. Let us know your thoughts about this in the comments down below!