For those into physical intimacy, Ludus is your style; you do not look for commitment or a long term congenial relationship. The relationship is free of expectations, considerations and promises. You don’t care much about the emotional involvements and have no desire turning any sexual encounter into something permanent.
You simply move on from one person to the next, seeking the thrill of the novelty each new encounter brings.
If you are reading this, Sagittarius and Scorpio, you must know what we are talking about. Though for Scorpio, they do get some malicious pleasure out of it.
Cancer, Pisces and Taurus
The term is always associated with an enormity of something. Rather, the severity of any action.
So while we may not call this relationship an obsession, it might not be far off. For, people whose style is mania simply want to experience it all. They want to be pampered, indulged, taken care of, and appreciated. They want the reciprocation with the same fervor as theirs not-withstanding the fact that there are inadvertently some individual differences in the loving style.
Cancer likes affection. They love being affectionate towards someone and have them return the favor. They like it when someone appreciates the effort they put into anything and get somewhat disappointed when the favor isn’t repaid.
Pisces wants to experience everything that comes with a relationship. They border on being clingy. Taurus simply wants some reassurance.
Gemini and Capricorn
As the name suggests, you are practical and logical when it comes to everything, even love.
Here, the sexual attraction takes a backseat and common goals, compatibility, congeniality and factors which reflect the desire for permanent bond is prioritized.
You measure the pros and cons, and never let your heart control your actions.
Now, while that may seem mechanical and not too exciting, you somehow always manage to end up safe after a breakup. You might not be happy about it, but at least nothing would catch you on guard.
It is usually Gemini who is incredibly pragmatic in their relationships, and always works towards making it even more practical. If it is a Capricorn, then, of course, you take some time before planning on doing anything in your relationship; after careful and intense deliberation that is.
Leo and Aquarius
Storge (‘store-gae’), or familial love, it is the type of love that is found between parents and children. It differs from most philia in that it tends, especially with younger children, to be unilateral or asymmetrical. (3)
In a partnership, this type of love is for people who look for emotional intimacy in any relationship.
You want to be friends with your partner before you are anything; they want that level of trust and connectivity before they venture into a relationship.
And even after entering a relationship, you still don’t want to stop being friends.
Leos are perfect for this sort of loving. You are loyal and extremely kind.
Similarly, for Aquarius, you want a partnership, for you view everyone as equals and treat them as such.
Love is all about the way one expresses it. But deep down, even your expression has its own style. Find out your way of expressing love.
(1,2,3) These Are the 7 Types of Love