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Life Lessons – A 3-Step Path to Getting Unstuck

Life Lessons 3Step Path Getting Unstuck

Step #2: Identify: What did you learn?

The key to answering this question is to remember that it’s about responsibility. If your answer sounds even remotely like blame – for example, I learned never to trust So-and-So again! – then I’m afraid you’re off track. The lesson is about you. Not them. You can’t change them, you can only change you. What did you learn about you? Examples might be, I learned that I need to ask questions more succinctly, or, I need to leave ten minutes earlier.

Step #3: Propose a solution: What’s your new plan?

Before you release the mistake and move on, it’s vital to your growth as a human being to identify what you will do differently next time. For those with a heavy conscience, you will only feel at peace when you come up with a new plan. 

What does a plan look like? It puts you in charge and identifies what you can do to increase the chances of a positive outcome. Plans that relate to our earlier examples might be something like, I will write my questions down, or, I will leave for work at seven-thirty.

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Applying Life School Lessons

Don’t spend energy on going backwards, assigning blame or looking for why. Give up the futility of pushing rocks uphill. Instead, take your regrets, your mistakes, and your missed opportunities and hold them up to the inner screen of your mind. Ask yourself, what can I learn here? Then apply the three steps: what went wrong, what did I learn and what’s my plan?

I hope you like this 3-step path to getting unstuck. Share your thoughts in comments below.

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Written by: Beau Henderson
Originally appeared on
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Beau Henderson

Beau Henderson is a financial advisor, a syndicated radio host, and the CEO of The RichLife Group. He is the USA Today and Wall Street Journal bestselling author of the New Money Mission. He writes and speaks internationally helping people create success with both money and life. Check out his website.View Author posts