Boy, was I wrong.
Over the course of the next year and a half, I totally lost who I was. I was so distracted by the situation that I couldn’t focus on my business, my health failed, my depression soared and it felt like my life was falling apart.
The first thing that I did when I managed to finally go ‘no contact’ with him was to do something that I used to love doing – taking a road trip!
I packed up my car and drove down to North Carolina where I spent a few days with a friend. The adventure kept my mind busy and helped me remember the woman I had been before. The happy, hot, self-confident woman who could rule the world.
Getting to know that person again made me strong enough to continue to go ‘no contact’ with him and start to build my life again.
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4. Spend time with people who love you.
I am guessing that, over the time you have been with your married man, you have separated yourself, to some degree, from those who love you.
The time that you spent, waiting near your phone, in case your guy called you. The time that you didn’t schedule things to do with people because you wanted to be available in case your guy was. The time that you didn’t spend with your friends because they didn’t want to hear any more about your married guy.
Knowing how to let go of a married man includes spending time with people you love, as often as possible. Not only will doing so keep your mind busy, so that you aren’t obsessing about your guy, but it will help you touch base again with the amazing person who you are.
And your friends will be so thrilled that you have your head on straight that they will be happy to join you on all of those adventures that you are ready to take.
5. Believe that you will love again.
I am guessing that this is the number one thing that is holding you back from letting go of your married guy. The fear that, if you do, you will never be loved again.
I am guessing that you might no longer believe that your guy is your soul mate – I mean how could a soul mate hurt you so much? But he is someone you love and someone with who you have invested a lot of your precious time. The idea of starting over is daunting.
What I can promise you is this – if you stay with your married guy, how your life is right now is most likely how your life will be for the foreseeable future. Can you imagine?
But, if you can extricate yourself from this relationship now, yes, you will have to put yourself out there but you are way more willing to meet a guy who will love you truly and who is ready to devote his life to you.
You will love again. Maybe even more than once. But you will love again, I promise!
Knowing how to let go of a married man is the number one way to actually make it happen.
Much like we must prepare for a test or a life event, knowing the steps that you will have to take to do the hard task will prepare you for doing it. Knowing what is ahead might not make it all seem so daunting.
With that in mind, be honest with yourself about the relationship. Be prepared to cut him off immediately. Renew your relationship with yourself, and your friends and family, and know that you will love, and be loved, again.
I know it seems impossible but you can do it! I did and I am truly living happily ever after!
Written By Mitzi Bockmann
Originally Appeared In Let Your Dreams Begin