It Bugs Me When People Are Unnecessarily Mean

It Bugs Me When People Are Unnecessarily Mean

It bugs me when people are unnecessarily mean. Like, you didn’t have to make that comment. You could have just kept your mouth shut and left that person not feeling bad about themselves. What do you gain from making someone else feel like shit? Nothing of substance. Maybe a fleeting moment of power but that’s gone as soon as it comes so why? There’s enough unhappiness in the world without you adding to it.

20 thoughts on “It Bugs Me When People Are Unnecessarily Mean”

  1. That’s because they are unhappy themselves. They rather live in their own bubble full with lies and insecurities than being confronted with the Truth. In the end, people want to hear the Truth. So, stay true to yourself. It matters only what You think and not the other person who is trying to make you feel bad. There’s nothing wrong with you. People will respect you even more for being honest to them than being a coward! 😉 But, find the right words….

  2. And to think people should live life how YOU think …is your own dysfunction.
    You don’t make rules for how people express themselves.
    You’re the one with the issue.

  3. Then be in your bug Intervall.People hurting people deeply should realize their mistakes the most of them are very ignorant and selfish without and brain or empathy .So only if you treat then the way the treated you some treated you worse.Grow up get a life we are NOT in the kindergarden stop complaining and blaming .

  4. ok im guilty w this, w one of the post in a page i followed this morning..but for me, i mirror the energy i recieved from the post, its like ” people dont like the truth, they just want what ( comfortable ) — i cant remember the rest. yes i could have said it right, but that bold letters i recieved it, as what it is..and for me, the truth, time, love, synchronicity, coincidence, force, this things are hard to comprehend you know its there, but u cant have it define as exactly as it is, without taking away its real meaning, u want to put meaning to it but it will be interpreted by others in a wrong way, it will come to you it will bite you that once you have it, you have it forever,..if its as easy then many of us will choose the truth..and most of us are making decision hoping/thinking in the end they are align w the truth..i believe truth is what comes to you whether u choose the easiest / hardest decision..when u put the truth as your goal, it becomes a belief, but when u take your life step by step it comes to you, choose your way through love or fear up to you..cos some of us cant choose love all the time, because of our circumstances some chooses fear to survive..but the truth is always catching up w them..
    im confuse but this is how i see it so far..
    yes better erase my comment and say sorry..
    ( its just the bold letters u see..✌)

    1. Yes, especially they are so sneaky. They thought you didn’t know they were the complete and utter devious conspirator behind all the hell they put you through and how much you lost because of he/she.

    2. My reaction is instant. Put up with enough of it when I was young. Being a short man just makes weak people feel they have an easy target. How wrong you are.

  5. And the worse this is that person usually says “I’m just being frank since I’m a straightforward kind of person, you know?”. Well, some people just don’t know the distinction between being being honest and being rude/mean. We can actually be be honest without having to be rude/mean.

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