They are usually not very rigid. If they show you the door, they can also let you in, provided you change your behavior. INFJs will never step into the same mess because they know the end very well and do not want to get hurt all over again. Sometimes, the door slam is more of a mental make-up rather than an action. They remain in touch with the “door slam” person; the connection though not severed is changed nonetheless.
They will no longer put in their hundred percent in the relationship and will remain at a safe distance. They have a hard time trusting the person and probably the relationship will never be the same. If they decide to embrace you, you are important. Whether the slam was done in haste and fury, or calmly and rationally plays a major role here. They are not Mr. Darcy saying “My good opinion once lost is lost forever”, so if you want to be in their lives, you have to make efforts.
They are the first ones to stand up for others and delve deep into their worries; it is really not too much for them to seek patience and understanding.
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