Why Infidelity Isn’t Always Black And White As People Believe It To Be

Infidelity Isnt Always Black And White

However, others don’t get to vote on what happens in your relationship. And you and your partner shouldn’t decide what to do based on what the majority of your friends and family do. You wouldn’t base your decision on whether to take your coffee black or with milk based on what your friends do, so don’t give them decision-making power in something as nuanced as fidelity.

Every couple needs to figure out what works for them, at this point in their relationship.

Want to know more about how you can have a healthy relationship and avoid infidelity? Read 16 Little Known Secrets of Couples With The Strongest Relationships

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Life is messy and complicated. Contradictions abound. Nuances can be difficult to sort out. Couples will face disagreements about each partner’s fidelity needs. There will be insecurities, doubts, hurt feelings, accusations, and pleas. If someone is important to you, then it is scary to think about losing them, so we have a right to be protective. But making a relationship into a police state is neither fun nor a guarantee of safety.

So keep having these conversations from time to time about what you each need from the other in order to feel secure in the relationship—especially those times when you don’t want to broach the subject. Whether you are concerned about your own actions/feelings or your partner’s, these times are the most important. However uncomfortable the conversation will be in that moment, it will only get harder the longer it is avoided.


Written By Ari Tuckman

Originally Appeared In Psychology Today 

The act of cheating isn’t always as simple as it seems to be; there are a lot of factors that need to be brought into question. What qualifies as cheating to one person, might not be the same for the other person. That said, cheating is something that should not be glorified in any way. Every couple should try to understand their relationship better and make sure that they are on the same page.

If you want to know more about how infidelity isn’t always that simple, then check this video out below:


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