I Was In An Abusive Marriage For 6 Years — And Had No Idea


Written by Emily Withnall

Emily Withnall’s writing has appeared in High Country News, Mamalode, ZO Magazine, Pittsburgh Quarterly and Urban Campfire. She is currently at work on her graduate thesis, a nonfiction piece that examines the parallels between hydraulic fracturing and domestic violence.

Originally appeared on Yourtango.com

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I Was In An Abusive Marriage For 6 Years — And Had No Idea


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