I am mad at myself, not you

I am mad at myself, not you

I am mad at myself, not you

46 thoughts on “I am mad at myself, not you”

  1. You hit it all right on the head. Very perceptive and deep, Terry. Thank you for sharing these posts. It resonated deep within. I'm not seeing the post you were responding to (there were 16 replies and I only see yours) but what you said made an amazing amount of sense to me, regardless of that fact.

  2. I was madly in- love with an illusion of a man who does'nt deserve a single thought or a memory.and i'm mad for forgetting to love myself in the process of loving him.

  3. The more used to you get to being ignored, the more you start investing in yourself, expecting lesser day by day and finally one fine day,you break all the unnecessary attachments and fly free.

  4. It's just depressing! such thoughts… No,don't regret being nice to someone even when they don't value you, just, keep in mind that you come before others, focus on self and move on.. Pondering over it won't do any good. Shake it off, focus on improving yourself continuously and one day you won't even feel the need for them to respond to you. You be the king of your own emotions.

  5. The heart is so stubborn sometimes.. .it refuses to hear what the mind has to say.. .sometimes we are there, sometimes on the other side. It is about life and love. No regrets, it could be worse missing experiences.. .let' s have hope in finding some day that "mad one" who matches with our own madness. ..

  6. Gosh , I love this line. I get mad at myself, not you. Girl. We need to get mad at them. Time we shift all our blames to the right place. We are perfect. We are not mistakes. We make mistakes. And we mistake people!

    1. I get mad at myself for being in the situation… being mad at another person can be endless… at least this way I can learn from my 'mistake' and move on… mind my own business…

  7. I am not only mad, I get into the dizzy I hate myself cycle. Damn me cycle. Don't I have any self-respect cycle. Have some dignity girl cycle. Cycles under new cycles. Till I am swooning and had to steady myself with one raw, killing and cutting icy line….don't be such a drama-queen….you have survived worse. You will live! So, shut your mind up. Get up , shrug yourself and lets go out and find a new place get crazy about! New adventure! Nothing has killed you so far, nothing ever will!

    1. Even unreturned love has its rainbow. There is nothing more Beautiful than a achingly vulnerable heart opening to receive more love, or more hurt. But refusing to close up. Refusing to harden up. Refusing to lock itself away inspite of knowing how savage love can be. Opening up its tenderest core to hardest of you….and hoping to find the salvation in that moment of complete annhilation!

    2. But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
      Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
      Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
      Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
      Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
      For love is sufficient unto love!

      -Khalil Gibran

    3. Kya kissi ka hona kaafi nahi hai?
      Kya bas yeh jaroori hai, ki woh tumhe kya dey sakhta Hai, ya, tumharey liyey kya kar sakhta hai?

      Is someone's existence ( not even presence) not enough for you?
      What he can do for you or what he can give you… Is that, the only thing that is important ?

  8. … and yet they STILL think it's all about them…hahahahahaha No need to explain… walk… and smile. Being nice is indication of self esteem and clear soul… being a kind person is always the best road… can get a little bumpy but would travel no other…

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