4. Be Authentic and Vulnerable
A man finds it attractive when a woman keeps herself put together on the outside; but, this won’t be the reason he falls in love with you. He will want to commit to a woman who is authentic and beautiful from the inside out. The real you. Not the woman in 5-inch stilettos and a designer dress. But, the woman who can be herself and isn’t afraid to show her imperfections.
Being vulnerable and open about your life experiences will show him you are genuine and ready for a relationship. This kind of openness will keep him coming back to you and only you.
If being vulnerable is challenging because you have a fear of getting hurt, then it will also be problematic in reaping the benefits of falling in love. High rewards come with high risk. Yes, you may experience a painful heartache from time-to-time but the only way to truly fall in love it to risk it all and believe in your worth.
5. Have A Positive and Optimistic Mindset
Having a positive mindset is crucial when it comes to getting a commitment. A man does not want to be around a woman who is continuously complaining about life or things she’s not happy with when it comes to herself. This will be emotionally draining for him. as he will grow tiresome of it rather quickly and pull back.
A man loves a woman who can handle what life throws at her with the most utter confidence. Being able to manage personal life stressors without looking for a partner to bail you out is uber attractive to a man. He will want to be an equal partner, not your rescuer in life.
Life is bound to throw you lemons every now and then and a great man will support you. However, if it continues to happen on a daily basis he will emotionally check out of the connection as he doesn’t want to be held back from his life endeavors. He wants to have fun with you, not deal with emotional situations day in and day out.
If you want a man to commit to you, then following these steps will draw him in closer. The higher the value you place on your self-worth, the more he will see you as a woman he wants as his long-term partner.
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