They say that on average, a person is destined to fall in love with 4 people during their lifetime. These 4 loves are all different and they all teach you different but very important lessons, about life and love.
But what if you are already in a loving relationship? Did the above observation make you feel slightly guilty? Before you hurry to swipe this article off your smartphone’s screens (lest your partner catches you reading up about all these other loves), relax. It is right there in the statement that it is an average. And there is no reason why you have to be, average.
A lot of factors decide how many lovers will we have and our zodiac sign is a great indicator if we want to unravel the mystery that is love.
How Many Times You Will Fall In Love During Your Lifetime, Based On Your Zodiac Sign
1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Aries, you take love very seriously, and never take it for granted. For you, love is what makes the world go round, and once you get a taste of it, you are never letting it go. When you are in a relationship, you give it your all and don’t believe in half-hearted efforts.
You believe in the forever kind of love, and that’s why you fall in love just once in your life. Once you fall in love with someone, you want to be with that person forever, and there’s no looking back for you. You are not someone who falls in love very easily, but when you do, you fall hard. So, love for you just comes once in your life, and when it does, you hold onto it forever.
Related: Aries Personality Traits: A Zodiac Guide to the Enterprising Yet Ruthless Sign
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Taurus you too, love to be in love. But the difference between you and Aries is that you throw your love around and get a new crush almost every single day. But that’s not a problem, because you are not stupid enough to confuse these flings (as intense they might be at the moment) for the real thing because you know exactly how important love is for you, and what it actually means.
You have had your heart broken before, and that’s why you know what true love is, and what it isn’t. That’s why you fall in love twice in your lifetime – once when you are young and innocent, and next, when you are more mature and sensible and are ready to embrace love into your life again.
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3. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Geminis actually fall in and out of love very easily, but this is not because you are not serious about love and relationship. It’s just that you can quickly get bored of your partner, and want to feel the excitement you felt at the beginning of the relationship. That is why it’s a challenge for you to have a long-term relationship with someone.
Additionally, you can be very inconsistent and picky when it comes to your choices. You are a pro at starting new things, but ending them or seeing them through? Not so much. That is why potentially, you will fall in love 4 times in your life because you have such a hard time holding onto a relationship.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of The Misunderstood Gemini
4. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
You are one of those people who daydream about their perfect love. You have quite high expectations and dream of having a magical kind of love but what you don’t understand is that sometimes, relationships like this can actually cause more harm than good. Putting too much unnecessary pressure on yourself or on your partner trying to imitate a perfect love is never going to yield good results in the long term.
Trust yourself and your partner, and most importantly, focus on having a strong sense of self-worth. This will help you be in a healthy relationship and one which you deserve.
You will fall in love twice in your lifetime. Your first time falling in love would be very intense which will lead to a painful heartbreak when you split. But don’t worry, the second time you fall in love, that will be the love you have always wanted and searched for. That love will change your life for the better, and give you everything you have ever wanted.
Related: 12 Personality Traits Of Cancer, The Cardinal Water Sign
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You do believe in love but you constantly feel like you need to taste every experience that the world has to offer. And that is why you find yourself with many interesting people during the course of your life. You might not want to get married immediately, but you strongly believe in the power of love.
You will fall in love two times in your life – you would have fallen in love when you were young but it might not have worked out between you then, and you had to work very hard to move on. But the next you fall for someone, that love is going to last forever, because you will be more mature, experienced and you will know exactly what you want and don’t want in a partner.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Leo, The Untamed Fire Sign
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgos know better than anyone how hard and painful love can be sometimes. Because you are extremely practical by nature, you know that even though love and romantic relationships have a good side to them, they can also have many bad sides. You would rather focus on your goals and ambitions, instead of thinking about your dream partner.
But at the same time, love is important to you, even though you don’t show it all the time. For you being in love is all about being loyal, committed, and happy. That’s why, you will only fall in love once in your life, and when you do, it’s going to be forever. You will work very hard to make sure that the relationship stands the test of time, and no matter what happens, you never give up.
Related: The Good and Bad of Loving a Virgo (12 Brutal Truths)
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
For you Libra, love is all about lessons. You live fast and you give your all to the relationship you’re in because you don’t know what else to do. You have an enormous heart that is filled with love, and all you want to do is shower all that love on someone. But with time you will learn a lot of important lessons about life and love, and how not everyone might deserve the love you have to give.
Love can be quite a learning experience, and with time, you will learn and understand a lot of it. When in a relationship, don’t just focus on your partner, focus on yourself and your needs too; that won’t make you love them any less. You deserve to have the same love, you give others.
During your lifetime, you will fall in love three times, and each of these relationships will teach you something important that you needed to learn about yourself.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Libra, The Idealistic Air Sign
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
You are capable of great passion and love and harbor so much intensity within yourself, but you chose to suppress it because you are so cynical about love and lasting happiness. No matter how much you want to love and be loved, your cynicism and pessimism stop you from being truly happy; you constantly think that your relationship won’t last, and it’s just a matter of time before everything is over.
Potentially, you will fall in love three times in your life. The first time, you will be very openhearted and naive in giving your love, and that might end up breaking your heart. The second time you will fall in love with a broken heart because you want to prove to yourself and the world that you can love truly. And the third time, when you fall in love, you will be more cautious about letting the other person in your heart, but once you do, you be all in.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Scorpio, The Ambitious Water Sign
9. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Whenever things get a bit too serious, you bolt. Even when you love the person with all your heart. Commitment and the thought of spending your life with someone gives you cold feet, and you almost start having panic attacks, which is why most of the time you choose to be in casual relationships. You know what love is, but sometimes you don’t know how to handle everything, and you end up bolting.
You will fall in love four times, but you will need all of these stages and loves in your life; every love will teach you something important. All the four loves will be more intense than the previous one, and loving and losing is going to help you learn a lot.
Related: The Good and Bad of Loving A Sagittarius: 7 Brutal Truths
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
You are someone who knows very well what they want, and you are not afraid of working hard for it. Be it your career or your relationships, you don’t take anything casually, and put a lot of effort and thought into making them a success.
You will probably fall in love only once in your life, and when you do, that relationship will be forever. The little things matter for you in love, and you believe in accepting people for the way they truly are. So, the day you fall in love is the day you are taken for good.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Capricorn, The Disciplined Soul
11. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
You are always obliged to choose between being independent and being in love. Both of these aspects are very important for your personality, that’s why you have a tough time choosing between the two. But with time you will learn that these need not be conflicting emotions at all, and you don’t have to compromise your independence for love.
For this reason, you’ll experience love twice in your life. The first time, you won’t know what you want, but you will still go through with it because starting something new always made you feel excited. The second time, you will be more confident and assured about yourself, and will know how to put your opinions across.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Aquarius, The Progressive Air Sign
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You have always dreamed of having a fairy tale love story since you were a child. Thinking about having someone in your life who will be perfect for you, and who will love you with all their heart, was enough for you to jump with joy. At the same time, you are also afraid that you will ruin it all somehow.
However, when you do find the love of your life, you must be sincere, thoughtful, and genuine; never think that you are not good enough for true love or that you will ruin it somehow. You will fall in love just once in your lifetime, and that love is going to truly change your life, and make you see the world from an entirely different perspective.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Pisces, The Gentle Water Sign
So, which zodiac sign do you belong to, and how many times have you fallen in love yet? Let us know your thoughts in the comments down below!
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