How Happy and Healthy Is Your Relationship? Quiz

2)     When you feel childlike, vulnerable, and needing of comfort, do you feel your partner can give that to you? ____

3)     Can your partner put aside his or her needs and be there for you when you ask? ____

4)     Can your partner differentiate between symbolically parenting you in a good way as opposed to making you feel worse? ____

5)     Would you have wished your partner had been your parent? ____

What is your total score? ____


Your answers to these questions may change markedly over time and with each stage of your relationship, but if you check them out on a regular basis, you can see where you’ve been, where you might be going as a partnership, and any changes you may wish to make.

Written By Randi Gunther Ph.D
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Dr. Randi Gunther
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