How A Narcissist Looks At Life And You

How Narcissist Looks At Life And You

When you see my dissatisfaction, you will try harder and harder to please me and do a better job next time. 

I am pulling your strings and you don’t even know it.  To see your never-ending struggle to please me amuses me for a time.  I deserve special treatment, you couldn’t rise to the challenge and failed to meet what was expected.

The goalposts never remain static.  They will be moved again and again to meet my unreachable expectations.

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I will continually put you down so that you are no reflection of who you once were.

If I move on or if you leave me, I will show you how insignificant you were to me, as I move on to someone else as if you never existed.

I reserve the right to come back to you when I see fit.  You will receive me with open arms as I come back into your life for a while.  Nothing in life is permanent.

If I lose control over you, I will control how other people see you.  I will let people know how you hurt me and they will believe me because I have already sowed the seeds.

Never cross me.  I will never forget and I will never forgive.  I will get my revenge.

I win, you lose.  That’s just the way it is.

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Remember that you are nothing without me.  You need me.  I do not need you.

Hopefully you have understood how a narcissist looks at life and you!

Footnote…
Remember that the narcissist needs somebody, anybody more than you do. They cannot survive without their supply.  When you realize this, you’ll know that the only one being fooled is themselves.


Written  by Anne McCrea

Originally appeared on: Narcissist And Emotional Abuse

Printed with permission
Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse, Shattering the Illusion is now available on Amazon.

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