8 Ways To Tell If He’s With You Just Because He’s Lonely


5) He doesn’t express his emotions

Men are programmed to not express their emotions and portray a tough exterior from their childhood.

But they do have emotions and if they really like someone, they would not be able to hide it for a very long time.

If he is sure that he likes you, he would find a way to let that be known to you. He would not keep things to himself for long and not only that he would make every effort to find out if you like him too.

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6) He doesn’t involve you in his life

In the initial phases of a relationship, the guy may not divulge a lot of his personal life to you.

But as the relationship strengthens, he would want to introduce you to the important people in his life, seek your opinion on decisions concerning his life and let you in his personal life.

If you have been spending quiet sometime with your guy and he has still not shared anything about his life with you, he is probably not thinking about the long haul with you.


7) He is only concerned about getting his needs met

People truly reveal themselves through their actions. Love making is a two way street and it should be pleasurable to both the partners.

If he is only concerned about getting his needs met and doesn’t give a hoot about making you feel loved, then you should really question yourself, why are you even spending your time with him?

If he never asks you about your choices and preferences and makes an effort to meet you midway, then you have some serious reflection to do.

You deserve someone who genuinely cares about you and is willing to make efforts to see you happy.


8) He doesn’t ask you out for dates

If he doesn’t make any effort to take you out on any actual dates and all his plans revolve around love making, then that’s all that he is interested in.

If he is not making any effort to take you out on an actual date and getting to know you better than all that he is really interested is a hook up.

He is really not looking for something serious and if you are looking for something serious, then he is definitely not the guy for you.

Don’t set yourself up for disappointment in future by sticking around this guy.

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8 Ways To Tell If He's With You Just Because He's Lonely