4. Presence of comfort.
We don’t fight or argue with just anybody. We argue only with people we love and this shows we are comfortable around and with them. We can have a difference of opinion and still be together. This is really comforting.
We can be who we are, no showoff or no ‘trying to be the nice person’. You don’t have to make up things or agree just to please someone. These situations are really uncomfortable. You know an argument you have is not going to ruin your relationship and that is a comfort.
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5. Absence of boredom.
When you can argue and give different opinions and ideas, it is anything but boring. You don’t need to keep yelling but get on the table with your opinions and play the pawn with your brain. These fights breed passion and after an argument, if it doesn’t decide who wins you can take it to the bed. *curtains on*
6. Presence of ideas.
You can always learn from each other. Arguments are not really to decide who is right and who is wrong but to present things you know and analyze which is right. In this process, the difference in knowledge provides an opportunity to learn from each other.
Isn’t it amazing that you can learn something new every day from your partner? If your partner argues with you, you sir/madam have someone to teach something every day.
Like everything in life, it’s about keeping the balance. You never want to insult or disrespect your partner. You can put your opinion forward in a humble manner. When you are in a healthy relationship you can always share what you believe in. It’s all in how you present any discussion.
If you want to know more about why couples who argue are happier, then check out this video below: