My first relationship wasn’t like this.
It was easy and kind, though after struggling with some men in future relationships, I learned pretty quickly that men who really want you are invested in unity.
They will be there for you.
While you may not always agree on things, he will try his hardest to find common ground with you so that you can both feel comfortable and resolved.
He won’t give you unrelenting attitude and the ego treatment because he cherishes you and the relationship more than his ego.
It’s all about the willingness to understand each other because you both value partnership.
So there you have it.
The four things a man does if he wants a relationship with you.
If you’ve got a man in your life who’s not doing these things, then I’m very sorry to say he’s either just not that invested or he’s simply incapable of true intimacy.
It doesn’t matter why he’s not fully committed to you, whether he’s insecure, has emotional issues, is emotionally unavailable or just waiting for someone better.
Not that there is someone better than you, though he’s thinking there’s someone else out there who will be more aligned with him in some way.
Then that’s 100 percent OK.
Let him go.
I want you to be with a man who prioritizes you, who wants to know you, who loves to spend time with you, who communicates with you regularly.
This is what an emotionally connected loving relationship looks like and this is how to know if he wants a serious relationship with beautiful, gorgeous you.
Even if it’s the early stages of dating, it shouldn’t feel like a battle. It should largely flow.
If a healthy relationship with a man is not flowing, don’t try to force it. Focus on what you really want.
If he’s not working with you, then know there really are many more men to meet who will be what you’re looking for.
There is no such thing as one man on the planet for you. There are plenty.
Secret signal that makes him commit to you?
To experience the kind of love that melts away your fears, pain and disillusion, then you DO NOT want to miss this.
Find out exactly what good men want to see before they will take the next step and commit forever.
Written by Nadine Piat
Originally appeared in Attracttheone.com
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