3. He wants to see you often.
He wants to see you again and again. If he’s really into you long term, nothing in the world is going to stop him from wanting to see you again.
Men generally aren’t complex creatures. Their actions aren’t too subtle to interpret.
Yes, they can be cagey and cautious but as that fog clears up, bottom line is he just wants to be with you again and as soon as possible. He will find ways to make it happen.
He might even drop by your work because he just happened to be in the area.
To help you with this, I made a must-see video where I explain the secret signal a man needs to open his heart and commit to you. What I share may certainly surprise you.
4. He will be your best friend and ally.
He will be your comrade. Not only is he attracted to you, he wants to be your best friend and ally.
He will go to war for you.
He will not want to be at war with you.
I’ve been in relationships with men who had no interest in being my comrade.
They were so ego-driven or so detached from the relationship that it almost never ran smoothly.
There was always a bump in the road.
My first relationship wasn’t like this.
It was easy and kind, though after struggling with some men in future relationships, I learned pretty quickly that men who really want you are invested in unity.
They will be there for you.
While you may not always agree on things, he will try his hardest to find common ground with you so that you can both feel comfortable and resolved.
He won’t give you unrelenting attitude and the ego treatment because he cherishes you and the relationship more than his ego.
It’s all about the willingness to understand each other because you both value partnership.
So there you have it.
The four things a man does if he wants a relationship with you.
If you’ve got a man in your life who’s not doing these things, then I’m very sorry to say he’s either just not that invested or he’s simply incapable of true intimacy.
It doesn’t matter why he’s not fully committed to you, whether he’s insecure, has emotional issues, is emotionally unavailable or just waiting for someone better.
Not that there is someone better than you, though he’s thinking there’s someone else out there who will be more aligned with him in some way.
Then that’s 100 percent OK.
Let him go.
I want you to be with a man who prioritizes you, who wants to know you, who loves to spend time with you, who communicates with you regularly.
This is what an emotionally connected loving relationship looks like and this is how to know if he wants a serious relationship with beautiful, gorgeous you.
Even if it’s the early stages of dating, it shouldn’t feel like a battle. It should largely flow.
If a healthy relationship with a man is not flowing, don’t try to force it. Focus on what you really want.