Why Girls Hate ‘Nice’ Guys

 August 03, 2019

Why Girls Hate 'Nice' Guys



 

Instead of directly advocating for your needs and desires, you’re nice.

And like her, you know “something’s off.” You feel weak with her. At her mercy. You can never get it right.

At your nadir, she’s a bitch, who complains all the time, even as you do everything to please her. You’re not the asshole who bullies her but sometimes you wish you could be.

Eventually, reality blows up. A big truth eludes you. And that truth is…

…the nice guy is a pathological version of the good boy.

So what’s a nice guy to do? How do you stop her hating you for being a nice guy?


Written by  Stuart Motola
Originally appeared in Stuart Motola

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