Be patience when your partner is going through hard times, instead of getting offended try to understand their situation. Anger and resentment will wreck your ship and in those difficult times, that can be the final nail in the coffin.
Don’t focus on the negative things, let go of it trying to understand the situation and move on holding their hand tight. Shine bright in the darkness
Don’t let the darkness of the difficult times take over you. Let your humor and compassion shine brightly. It’s difficult but let your sense of humor still have its place.
Your mood also affects your partner’s mood, be positive and hold on to the light that shines at the distance. Letting yourself drown in darkness will take you apart from your partner. Keep the romance alive
When times are hard and everything seems gloomy, we feel foul and loathsome and that is the time we need love the most. Don’t let the thoughts of betrayal and dishonesty plague your mind.
When in difficult times you start making scenarios in your head which don’t exist and still breaks you. You just need to put in efforts to feel your partner loved. Let them know you still love them with the same passion, let them know you still care.
4. Accept the differences and compromise
When one partner is in the deep abyss, the relationship seems to fail as the other partner gives in the darkness offered by difficult times.
When times are hard the small differences that didn’t matter at all suddenly finds a ground to hinder your relationship.
Your partner didn’t call this upon himself to make your dreams shatter, he didn’t ask for it.
He is going through pain and is suffering just like you.
In this moment you need to lift him up and hold him not push him down. You need to compromise on few things, this is the time you put your priorities in correct order.
Your love for your partner needs to be proven in these times if you love him for what he is or you just love the idea of who he is or can be.
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