4. Does history keep repeating itself?
Are you and your guy stuck in a cycle of good and bad, up and down, highs and lows? Are there days when things feel almost like they used to and then days when things are so bad that you want to cry?
Does your man tell you that he needs space and disappear only to reappear a few weeks later telling you how much he misses you? Do you fight over the same subjects over and over? Are you stuck in a cycle of misery?
If you find yourself in these kinds of patterns, where things are never constantly good but rather a roller coaster of emotions that is sucking you dry, then it’s time to let go.
5. Are you staying for the wrong reasons?
Be honest. Do you sometimes think that you just can’t let this guy go because you believe if you do that you will never love, or be loved, again?
Do you think about going back on dating sites or that you might have to attend the Christmas party alone and feel nothing but dread at the prospect?
If you are feeling this way then it’s definitely time to let go of your man. If you are staying with your guy because you are worried that there won’t ever be someone else then you are staying with him for the wrong reasons.
Because there will be another love out there for you but you will never find him if you are stuck in a relationship that isn’t making you happy. If you can let go of this one then you will set yourself up, physically and energetically, to find that person who will love you forever.
I am guessing that, if you are reading this article, you are wondering how to know when to end a relationship because you suspect, deep down, that this isn’t the one for you.
But it’s hard to admit this and even harder to let go.
It is essential, for your mental health and the health of your future love life, that you pay hard attention to whether it’s time to let go of a lost love.
Do you guys still have fun? Is he treating you well and consisently? Are you worried you will never love again?
Ask yourself these questions and, if the answers fit, be determined to let go of your lost love.
And just how do you do that? Check out this article: 5 Life-Saving Ways to Let Go of Someone Who Doesn’t Love You so that You Can Be Happy. It will guide you, step by step, through a process that might be difficult but will be worth it in the long run.
You CAN do this!