Here are the five kinds of Narcissists you may have a chance encounter with:
1) The Self Pity Narcissist
Not all Narcissist are outwardly and boasting kinds. Some are reserved and keep to themselves. They feel they are not good enough for anything. They constantly battle with fear and insecurities. They wallow in Self pity and self loathing and look for external validation to feel comforted.
2) The Champion
On the other side of the spectrum are the ones who consider themselves to be champions and super heroes. They have a grandiose sense of self and believe that they are above everybody else. They have a sense of entitlement and feel that everyone around them should appreciate and acknowledge their superiority.
3) The Best Partner
They are the kinds who will shower you with love and affection till you lose yourselves in their world. It is commonly known as the “love bombing “technique where in they shower you with love and affection in the beginning stages of the relationship to have you hooked to them.
But once you stop yielding to their demands or they get bored, they would simply pack their bags and go. The love and care that they expressed was never real, it was just their way of getting what they wanted.
4) The Snobs
They are the kinds who never see anything beyond themselves. They will constantly brag about themselves and their accomplishments.
5) The Intriguer
They are the kinds who will pique your interest by their social image. They will come across as community workers or care givers of the society but what they are doing is not really selfless, they always want something in return for their kindness.
These tips will help you to avoid getting into a relationship with a Narcissist in the first place but if you are already in one, then the best way to get of the relationship is to simply walk out without any prior notice or discussion.
Narcissists are very charming people and good with manipulation, if you give them a chance to discuss things, they would cajole you with their apologies and tricks.
Don’t fall into that trap. It’s important for you to realize that charity begins at home and you need to practice self love and set boundaries before you try to fix every broken soul in the world.
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