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Men tend to believe that expressing their emotions may be viewed as a sign of weakness. On the contrary it takes a lot of strength to be vulnerable and it’s part of being emotionally mature. All you need is the strength to overcome your ego and make yourself comfortable enough to start.
8) Take guidance from emotionally mature men.
Through their formative years’ men grow up hearing that they shouldn’t show their emotions whether it is sport’s field or workplace. So, most of them get the feeling that it isn’t manly to cry or be emotional and make sure they don’t be like that.
But if you look around, you will definitely find a few men who are emotionally mature. You can seek guidance from them.
9) Emotional connect creates space for their partners.
How many times have you avoided an emotional conversation when your partner needed it? With emotional maturity you will be creating space for them.
You will be able to indulge in an emotional conversation with them, and they will come to know you aren’t emotionally ungenerous, after all.
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10) Respect limits.
You will be sensitive enough not to hurt or interrupt someone’s privacy.
11) Just Listen.
You don’t have to resolve someone’s emotional problems. You don’t need to do anything when someone is crying or hurt except listen to them with sympathy and love.
12) Express, don’t hide.
Emotionally mature men don’t hide behind feelings when confronted by them. If you feel ashamed expressing your hidden feelings, you got to work on it.
When you are emotionally mature you will know to trust someone who doesn’t hurt you, and if they do, you will have enough resilience to recover.
13) Are considerate and empathetic.
An emotionally mature person tries to understand other’s feelings. You will have to bring change in your perspective so that you can focus on resolving conflicts rather than forcing your way ahead of others to prove yourself right. When the woman in your life expresses feelings that scare you, don’t attack her. Instead, be patient and loving.
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14) Emotional generosity.
The realization that you have the strength to offer support, care, and comfort, and nurture a loving relationship is a sign of emotional maturity. You don’t want to win over anyone, rather you are there to uplift.
Being open, feeling fear, grief, or self-consciousness doesn’t mean you are being defeated and shouldn’t trigger anger in you. If you have achieved all this, you are already a winner.
Emotionally mature men are hard to come by, so if you have someone like that in your life, then never let him go. They are valuable and hard to come by.
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