True partners help each other to evolve into something better. They expose their partner to physical emotional, mental and spiritual revelations and awareness to attain their best.
Sometimes love has such a great positive impact on us that we become more of what we are— something we didn’t know we could ever be.
Still, we get involved in relationships with people who love only certain parts of us and rest they despise. And we are keep imagining what being loved entirely means.
The biggest indicator of true love is that it is meant to nurture you and make you better. It is the feeling of freedom and peace that washes over you whenever your lover embraces you.
This knowing rises from the knowledge that there is no need to do anything special to get your partner’s love. The same applies to us and we don’t want to mold or mend our partners but love them in their completeness.
We know their darker side, their weaknesses and things they won’t show to the world. We know the pain and suffering they have been through and kiss their scars and let them know we understand what they have been through.
This type of love is not unreal but it is also a secret that known to very few of us. That is why we surrender ourselves to those people who make us constantly struggle to measure up to their expectations.
This goes on until we understand what love actually means. When we have learned what we need from our lover and don’t feel ashamed to assert it this circle breaks.
We have to believe that we deserve to be accepted in all our completeness and will only be with someone who can become a part of the journey to our evolution to ourselves. When we reach out with our love as evolved persons to someone who can receive it from their highest self, we know we have found this type of love. Then love becomes beautiful as someone can see the light within us which others couldn’t.
To love with the hope of inspiring someone to grow means that there is no end result to a specific relationship dynamic. There are no conventional signposts by which to judge this type of romantic union—yet that doesn’t mean it can’t include living together a marriage, or even children; it just means that none of this are stipulations for a successful and loving relationship.
Practically, there are no particular characteristics that will help you identify this type of love. It can very well culminate into marriage and children, and sometimes it may not always transform into something similar.
Each one of us is meant to continue growing, and what we become interested in or explore will be different each year. We should try new things, read new material and experiment with discovering what kind of person we truly are, and what kind of life we want to lead. The truly beautiful thing is that certain lovers will help us do all of that and so much more.
Being dynamic individuals we are subject to changes and with time we want to experience new things. A true partner will help you achieve all that. They will never stop you from experimenting and exploring
Because love inspires us to grow. It does not restrict, it doesn’t smother. The magic of love is truly unleashed when we learn to love someone as they are.