This post hit the nail on the head. I was just telling someone the other day about how I changed after the break up. I miss my old self; still on the quest for it to return instead of being protected by a wall around my heart
not that way no. I don’t let bad people trash my self worth. I never changed aside of being wiser and smarter. My view of the bad person simply stopped being white washed and that is not a bad thing. I was not particularly at fault so why would I hate myself for being the person who believed in someone? The best of the best even get fooled. When I miss who I was it is related to the losses suffered from injuries thanks to an ass hole that drove drunk. When I miss my self it is for Real reasons and not shit that I can change or control or learn from. To me people who live in their pain of wrong choices they can move on from are whiny bitches lol. Self destructive poor me pessimistic people that use past bad choices to justify new bad choices and then redirect that responsibility onto others. Talk to me when you experience real loss to cry over 😉
I do…and I don’t – I have grown and come a long way, experienced things I needed to experience that have shaped me for who I am. A lot of them were painful but there was also good mixed in-between. I miss that person I used to be, but I know he’d be happy to see who I am now.
Sometimes. But I taught myself that people who aren’t worthy enough for you aren’t meant to be with you. I chose the path to become wiser rather than regretful.
You will get your “before” person back…we humans are resilient…just give it time and don’t obsess about it…think only happy, positive thoughts!!! Love you! <3
I was more trustg back then the prob was I thought everyone think the way I did I was gullible and naive I wanted to believe that everyone had a good heart I left my heart open it got broken over and over again now I’m guarded.. Peop and expectations ruined it for me so yeah I do miss the person I use to be I trusted others from the get go now I have to get to know someone first before I trust them
Sometimes, but for the most part, enjoy who I am now and still becoming. If not for those times before, I would not know now that I am enough; learning to love self is more important that seeking love and acceptance through someone else. I would not have learned that we are all flawed and the first person who broke my heart, first person who betrayed my trust were introductions to lessons which have become valuable in my becoming wise. It does not mean there were not other experiences, just means they did not hurt as much as the first times.
No. I used to, but now I’m much happier since I learned to LOVE myself. That was a healing process that I couldn’t have had without my trials and tribulations.
I don’t know who that was. My first betrayal, heartbreak, was age 2. I went on with life, but that and countless others shaped me from that very young age. I’m still battling the lessons those betrayals taught me about myself, about life. I refuse to believe that I’m an unlovable, useless, ugly, terrible human being and I refuse to believe that the world, other people, are as cruel as I was taught they were.
I do not miss myself during those hard times, but I do miss myself before when I had happy times and care free. If ever there is a time machine, I would like to advise myself to watch out for those lying people
No I wouldn’t be who I am today if it wasn’t for my first heart break or betrayal!! This happens to us to learn from it to grow to be stronger wiser and to help prepare us for what life has in store for us in the future!!
Nope…. everything I’ve been through has made me the woman I am today. Without those experiences, I may not be as strong, I may be a bit more naive and find myself in similar situations I’ve already conquered, growth may be painful… but is healthy. ♡
Actually I don’t really miss my old self. That part of me is well hidden under lots of pain, suffering and bad experiences. These situations made me the person I am today, a person that can stand up on her own, ready to face any difficulties are ahead. Dear past, thank you; dear present, I embrace you; dear future, I’m waiting for you !!!
Dear person reading this,
I hope your day has been going well, if not, I hope it gets better You are an amazing person who will inspire others to do great things so keep up the hard work.
Missing myself like crazy
I do
never.
Yeah sometimes.
Nope. Because some people are better and more beautiful after hell fire.
I do
Every day
Me too. I do miss myself…
Parita Thakur Aditi Lath..
Remember that talk?
Yes. I do.
Tc bus stand. You leaving for Bangalore. 2 smokes, 1 box of chicken noodles from dollops and a bottle of water.
<3
Then be them again
Michelle Liu dammmmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
fak so true though
I do too
I did miss myself , but now I’m at the point of finding myself again
This post hit the nail on the head. I was just telling someone the other day about how I changed after the break up. I miss my old self; still on the quest for it to return instead of being protected by a wall around my heart
not that way no. I don’t let bad people trash my self worth. I never changed aside of being wiser and smarter. My view of the bad person simply stopped being white washed and that is not a bad thing. I was not particularly at fault so why would I hate myself for being the person who believed in someone? The best of the best even get fooled. When I miss who I was it is related to the losses suffered from injuries thanks to an ass hole that drove drunk. When I miss my self it is for Real reasons and not shit that I can change or control or learn from. To me people who live in their pain of wrong choices they can move on from are whiny bitches lol. Self destructive poor me pessimistic people that use past bad choices to justify new bad choices and then redirect that responsibility onto others. Talk to me when you experience real loss to cry over 😉
No you moron. Put your head back up your ass where it belongs!
I don’t.Cause I ve learned and grown:)
I trusted myself and he let me down…
I do…and I don’t – I have grown and come a long way, experienced things I needed to experience that have shaped me for who I am. A lot of them were painful but there was also good mixed in-between. I miss that person I used to be, but I know he’d be happy to see who I am now.
Sometimes. But I taught myself that people who aren’t worthy enough for you aren’t meant to be with you. I chose the path to become wiser rather than regretful.
I miss the ‘happy me’.
Yes of course
I would like to go back to school and re-live those school days again….summer of 69….lol….
Yep
No…my first heartbreak happened the moment I was born. So no….I love who I have become. I love that I am now the person I was always meant to be.
no i miss special people who left he earth too soon there loss is like a big hole but i like to remember the good times
You will get your “before” person back…we humans are resilient…just give it time and don’t obsess about it…think only happy, positive thoughts!!! Love you! <3
We r all mad here.
Nope, that bitch was naive as fuck, I’m stronger AND smarter now. Why would I go back? What’s to miss?
I did but I found myself through the last four years of pain and recovery
Every. Single. Day.
I always miss my self happy and stronger . Always love yourself…because you know yourself better then everyone… Find the way ….
nope..these r all learning curves
No.
It’s a rave new world
I was more trustg back then the prob was I thought everyone think the way I did I was gullible and naive I wanted to believe that everyone had a good heart I left my heart open it got broken over and over again now I’m guarded.. Peop and expectations ruined it for me so yeah I do miss the person I use to be I trusted others from the get go now I have to get to know someone first before I trust them
Me too …
Sometimes, but for the most part, enjoy who I am now and still becoming. If not for those times before, I would not know now that I am enough; learning to love self is more important that seeking love and acceptance through someone else. I would not have learned that we are all flawed and the first person who broke my heart, first person who betrayed my trust were introductions to lessons which have become valuable in my becoming wise. It does not mean there were not other experiences, just means they did not hurt as much as the first times.
I do ..
…yeah i do but fighting back and step by step refinding myself…only with the difference i am smarter and more enlighten by life in its whole…
At some point, everyone misses the carefree life we had, before heartbreak came.
no… am looking forward to seeing me…
I also do…..:'(
Yes I do
Yes I do
@upasna : Its better to learn from your experiences rather than missing them…
No. I used to, but now I’m much happier since I learned to LOVE myself. That was a healing process that I couldn’t have had without my trials and tribulations.
No. I got so much better and extremely independent. So? What’s life without lessons?
yeah every single day
No. I needed all the pain for personal growth. Without some pain in your life, how will you ever appreciate what life can be like without it…
All the time.
No. I’m stronger and more joyful because of what I learned. And I am praying to be kinder and wiser.
Hmmm
I don’t!
Eyes forward. You are becoming a better, stronger person. Looking back serves no useful purpose.
of course…
same here!
The person before HSC….!!!
I miss my old self before him but I became a strong person bkz of him so Thank you for the heartbreak
I don’t know who that was. My first betrayal, heartbreak, was age 2. I went on with life, but that and countless others shaped me from that very young age. I’m still battling the lessons those betrayals taught me about myself, about life. I refuse to believe that I’m an unlovable, useless, ugly, terrible human being and I refuse to believe that the world, other people, are as cruel as I was taught they were.
No I don’t 🙂
No, those days were things in the past. What’s done is done. What’s left were lessons learned.
No I feel better as I have turned my self into them…they r many n v were few
Nope not at all
Yes
I do not miss myself during those hard times, but I do miss myself before when I had happy times and care free. If ever there is a time machine, I would like to advise myself to watch out for those lying people
Yes, I definitely me the real me. I am working on finding her again though!!!
Nope! All that made me me and me is awesome now. More than ever
Aditi Mittal
I do and I don’t…. Everyday brings either of them
Nope
yes i miss myself.
hmmmm.MISSING YOU ANGEL.
No i dnt that person was weak n vunerable am stronger.n better nw jesus save me from all that heart ache n pain
No – dont be pathetic.
Yes hard to trust again
No
sometime i do , but m thankfuk as well that, that me is no longer alive in me…
NOPE. No regrets at all ❤
Hell no, im stronger fiercer
Never forget what I forgive.
No cause I buried them all, Merry Christmas.
No I wouldn’t be who I am today if it wasn’t for my first heart break or betrayal!! This happens to us to learn from it to grow to be stronger wiser and to help prepare us for what life has in store for us in the future!!
Trauma made me who I am – very early. There wasn’t a ‘me’ to miss…only a ‘me’ to create } ).
So beautiful a sentiment, I agree and applaud.
Yes
Every damn day…..
Nope…. everything I’ve been through has made me the woman I am today. Without those experiences, I may not be as strong, I may be a bit more naive and find myself in similar situations I’ve already conquered, growth may be painful… but is healthy. ♡
Sometimes just wish i could go into the past nd stp myself frm repeating the mistakes and getting hurt.
Totally
Not at all. All what happened to me made me stronger and wiser, I’m so much more comfortable to be the person I became.
Guess so, or maybe just thinking about an old me. Defiantly like looking forward though
I do miss the old me, the new me will have to do…
I miss who we were together. <3
Actually I don’t really miss my old self. That part of me is well hidden under lots of pain, suffering and bad experiences. These situations made me the person I am today, a person that can stand up on her own, ready to face any difficulties are ahead. Dear past, thank you; dear present, I embrace you; dear future, I’m waiting for you !!!
well stated.
Yes.
I do
No. I am thankful to no longer be naive.
No
Have no time for that..rather drink strong black coffee to realize that.
I miss my innocent self before being in a relationship.
Yes
everyone is in constant flux
No a work in process.still is.
Dear person reading this,
I hope your day has been going well, if not, I hope it gets better You are an amazing person who will inspire others to do great things so keep up the hard work.
NO,time healed everything and i am again the same as i were before.