True love doesn’t hurt
Pain and hurt is also a sure sign of ego love. Because when you believe that it’s the other person who is the source of your unhappiness, you’re not in a soul-based relationship.
It’s the illusions about love that hurts.
The partner in the ego-based relationship helps you to see your own shadow so you can work on it and then become whole.
Whereas, in the soul-based relationships you both grow but not through pain but instead through awareness and being present. You also don’t have any power-battles and blaming games with each another.
In whichever relationship you’re, remember that you always get that which you need the most at any given moment. So embrace it fully and learn from your current lessons. It doesn’t mean that you have to stay in a dysfunctional relationship, sometimes part of the teaching is to leave.
You can also continue reading the 4 types of relationships from the soul’s perspective.
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Written by Sylvia Salow
Originally appeared on Sylvia Salow.com
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