12 Ways Body Language Reveals Someone Is Attracted To You

4. Trying to look one’s best

trying to look one's best

Courtship unconsciously entails looking your best. One of the important components of attraction is physical attraction and it is mostly based on how one externally looks. 

It has nothing to do with beauty but everyone wants to look their best when they are presenting themselves to the person they are interested in. Notice how the person is acting around you. Is he/she engaging in smoothing his/her clothes or fixing their watches, ties and other aspects of their looks? 

If you see someone take the extra last minute self-care, he/she is definitely trying to attract you. 


5. Eye contact 

eye contact

Have you noticed them making eye contacts with you whenever you looked at them? Were there moments when she/he stole glances with you, looked down or to the sides and then looked back at you to see if you looked again?

This is a typical behavior of a person who is genuinely interested in you. Eye contact means that they are paying undivided attention to you and wants to read in your eyes what you feel for them. A Confident guy will make a more steady eye contact, while a shy guy might make broken eye contacts.

Prolonged eye contact is a sure sign that they are attracted to you. 


6. Touching hair 

touching hair

Touching one’s own hair while he/she is talking with you or sitting in front of you can mean that they are feeling the heat of the attraction. But it can also be a sign of nervousness and being uncomfortable. So before reaching conclusions, look for additional signs along with hair touching like smiling. 

If a man sweeps his fingers through his hair, he is kind of preening for the woman. If a woman might lightly twirls her hair or plays with the ends, along with smiling, she is attracted.


7. Mirroring


Mirroring is when someone subconsciously copies the movements, gestures, postures and even behaviour pattern of the person they can connect to – it can be any part of the body like hands, face, eyes, legs or even the entire body. Mostly this happens during social interactions between closely connected people.

Notice whether the person is taking up your poses or gestures. He/she might just be getting uncontrollably attracted to you. 


8. Blushing or flushing 

blushing or flushing

Blushing is normally involuntary and triggered by emotional stress tying candor, such as that associated with passion, embarrassment, anger, or romantic stimulation.

As the attraction builds, blood rushes to the face making one look flushed. Blushing happens subconsciously and one cannot control it in any way.

The lips may also become more reddish and the eyes whiter and brighter.

9. Parted lips or lips licking 

parted lips

Women usually lick their lips when they feel attracted to someone. Men on the other hand have a slightly parted lips to indicate interest in conversing with you.

When a person does this, he/she is feeling sexual tension with you or is open to conversing on this topic.

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Helen Noronha
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