I had no idea that when I repeatedly told people “I never win anything” I was cursing my life and facing myself to lose. Now, I know better.
So, are YOU blessing or cursing your life?
If you aren’t sure, pay close attention to the phrases you regularly use. While regulating every last word that comes out of your mouth may be too big of a job, at a minimum you can identify the common “curses” you’ve been hexing yourself with.
There were a few others of mine. Perhaps you relate to some of them:
- “My husband always leaves his crap all over the house.”
- “I have a hard time talking to people I don’t know.”
- “Work before play.”
- “I’m so stressed out.”
- “I hate Mondays.”
- “Alcohol helps me be more social.”
- “You can’t trust people.”
- “I can’t afford that.”
- “I’m so tired.”
- “It’s just one thing after the other.”
If you find yourself saying a key “cursing” phrase repeatedly, take note! Do you best to bite your tongue. If it takes a little practice, that’s ok-but make the effort as much as you can. If possible, find an alternative “blessing” phrase to replace your common curse with.
For example, instead of “I hate Mondays,” you could say “Monday is always a fresh start!”
Please be mindful of the words you use. You are always in the process of either blessing or cursing your life. The phrases we repeatedly use make a massive impact on the reality we experience.
XO, Andrea (Law of Attraction Educator)